Just a quick tip to add to your tool belt. I found it can be good to ask a girl what she can do for you, "are you a good cook" for example. Has anyone got any other sort of questions to put you in the frame that your trying to make sure she qualifies to be your women?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Ask her what she can do for you.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
GloriouslyInsane
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"Do you have a big tv?" , "Are you fun?"
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
If she does something that I think is plain hot. I just give a 'ooh" and put my arm around her.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
lol Shezz, someday your going to be able to sarge WITHOUT LYING!!!!
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
i like it.. it's simple, but sometimes the simple things are the most important ones.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Bravo!Shezz said:
