Just a quick tip to add to your tool belt. I found it can be good to ask a girl what she can do for you, "are you a good cook" for example. Has anyone got any other sort of questions to put you in the frame that your trying to make sure she qualifies to be your women?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Ask her what she can do for you.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
GloriouslyInsane
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Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
If she does something that I think is plain hot. I just give a 'ooh" and put my arm around her.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
lol Shezz, someday your going to be able to sarge WITHOUT LYING!!!!
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
i like it.. it's simple, but sometimes the simple things are the most important ones.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Bravo!Shezz said:
