"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Ask her what she can do for you.

wildchild

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Just a quick tip to add to your tool belt. I found it can be good to ask a girl what she can do for you, "are you a good cook" for example. Has anyone got any other sort of questions to put you in the frame that your trying to make sure she qualifies to be your women?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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wildchild

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Excellent, What I also like doing if a girl does do something I like or has a skill i find attractive i say to her "You have just won yourself some brownie points" girls seem to love this.
 

Skilla_Staz

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If she does something that I think is plain hot. I just give a 'ooh" and put my arm around her.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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flippinfreak

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lol Shezz, someday your going to be able to sarge WITHOUT LYING!!!!
 

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i like it.. it's simple, but sometimes the simple things are the most important ones.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Shezz said:
WOW! This is new! Qualifying?!?! What is this? lol jk man

Always Qualify them Specifically and Disqualify them Generally (Dan), thats the way it must go down....
Bravo! :up:
 
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