"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Ask her what she can do for you.

wildchild

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Just a quick tip to add to your tool belt. I found it can be good to ask a girl what she can do for you, "are you a good cook" for example. Has anyone got any other sort of questions to put you in the frame that your trying to make sure she qualifies to be your women?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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wildchild

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Excellent, What I also like doing if a girl does do something I like or has a skill i find attractive i say to her "You have just won yourself some brownie points" girls seem to love this.
 

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If she does something that I think is plain hot. I just give a 'ooh" and put my arm around her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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flippinfreak

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lol Shezz, someday your going to be able to sarge WITHOUT LYING!!!!
 

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i like it.. it's simple, but sometimes the simple things are the most important ones.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Shezz said:
WOW! This is new! Qualifying?!?! What is this? lol jk man

Always Qualify them Specifically and Disqualify them Generally (Dan), thats the way it must go down....
Bravo! :up:
 
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