Just a quick tip to add to your tool belt. I found it can be good to ask a girl what she can do for you, "are you a good cook" for example. Has anyone got any other sort of questions to put you in the frame that your trying to make sure she qualifies to be your women?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Ask her what she can do for you.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
GloriouslyInsane
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Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
If she does something that I think is plain hot. I just give a 'ooh" and put my arm around her.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
flippinfreak
Master Don Juan
lol Shezz, someday your going to be able to sarge WITHOUT LYING!!!!
backbreaker
Master Don Juan
i like it.. it's simple, but sometimes the simple things are the most important ones.
Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Bravo!Shezz said:
