"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
asians = AFCs?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
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It is a very funny thing, but most white people see "Asians" as this giant mass of crowd (kind of like comparing a Frenchman with an American). The fact is, socially Asians are more varied than you would know.
So no, Asians as a whole are not AFC because they do not exist. Individual Asians, like any individual, can be good or bad with women.
Just remember, simply because the media tells you all Asians are whizz computer/engineer geeks, black people kill anyone who breaths, and white people are scared of their own shadows, is not necessarily the truth.
lol, after spending some time in Thailand myself, I highly doubt that would ever happen! Unless u were an asian celeb!Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
Asians who get laid with more hot Asian chicks than an American man in Thailand?
As for the topic, I hope this doesnt start another Asian debate.
Every race has their AFCs and their non AFCs. As far as Asian woman, I am personally not a big fan. However Asian blokes are awesome, they have something western culture is seeming to forget these days, RESPECT!! Some of my best mates are Asian!
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