"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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asians = AFCs?

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david90

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Is it just me or do most asian guys are AFCs? Most are passive and are not out spoken. I can see why due to our culture and how we are raised to be polite and well behave.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Dapper Swindler

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Yes, it's not just you. But it is entirely cultural.
 

SageOFAllenAge

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Clarify 'asians'
 

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Um...south east asians? No that would not include korea.

He means chinese/japanese/koreans/vietnamese... you know, "asians"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PeeGee

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Discussed to death. But there's some truth to it. Spend any time in um..asian community forums and you'll see crazy AFC behaviour.
 

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Do you mean the Asians who are more interested in getting a good career than women, or the Asians who get laid with more hot Asian chicks than an American man in Thailand?

It is a very funny thing, but most white people see "Asians" as this giant mass of crowd (kind of like comparing a Frenchman with an American). The fact is, socially Asians are more varied than you would know.

So no, Asians as a whole are not AFC because they do not exist. Individual Asians, like any individual, can be good or bad with women.


Just remember, simply because the media tells you all Asians are whizz computer/engineer geeks, black people kill anyone who breaths, and white people are scared of their own shadows, is not necessarily the truth.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
Asians who get laid with more hot Asian chicks than an American man in Thailand?

lol, after spending some time in Thailand myself, I highly doubt that would ever happen! Unless u were an asian celeb!

As for the topic, I hope this doesnt start another Asian debate.

Every race has their AFCs and their non AFCs. As far as Asian woman, I am personally not a big fan. However Asian blokes are awesome, they have something western culture is seeming to forget these days, RESPECT!! Some of my best mates are Asian!
 
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