"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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asians = AFCs?

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Is it just me or do most asian guys are AFCs? Most are passive and are not out spoken. I can see why due to our culture and how we are raised to be polite and well behave.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yes, it's not just you. But it is entirely cultural.
 

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Clarify 'asians'
 

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Um...south east asians? No that would not include korea.

He means chinese/japanese/koreans/vietnamese... you know, "asians"
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Discussed to death. But there's some truth to it. Spend any time in um..asian community forums and you'll see crazy AFC behaviour.
 

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Do you mean the Asians who are more interested in getting a good career than women, or the Asians who get laid with more hot Asian chicks than an American man in Thailand?

It is a very funny thing, but most white people see "Asians" as this giant mass of crowd (kind of like comparing a Frenchman with an American). The fact is, socially Asians are more varied than you would know.

So no, Asians as a whole are not AFC because they do not exist. Individual Asians, like any individual, can be good or bad with women.


Just remember, simply because the media tells you all Asians are whizz computer/engineer geeks, black people kill anyone who breaths, and white people are scared of their own shadows, is not necessarily the truth.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
Asians who get laid with more hot Asian chicks than an American man in Thailand?

lol, after spending some time in Thailand myself, I highly doubt that would ever happen! Unless u were an asian celeb!

As for the topic, I hope this doesnt start another Asian debate.

Every race has their AFCs and their non AFCs. As far as Asian woman, I am personally not a big fan. However Asian blokes are awesome, they have something western culture is seeming to forget these days, RESPECT!! Some of my best mates are Asian!
 
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