"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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asians = AFCs?

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david90

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Is it just me or do most asian guys are AFCs? Most are passive and are not out spoken. I can see why due to our culture and how we are raised to be polite and well behave.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Yes, it's not just you. But it is entirely cultural.
 

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Clarify 'asians'
 

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Um...south east asians? No that would not include korea.

He means chinese/japanese/koreans/vietnamese... you know, "asians"
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Discussed to death. But there's some truth to it. Spend any time in um..asian community forums and you'll see crazy AFC behaviour.
 

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Do you mean the Asians who are more interested in getting a good career than women, or the Asians who get laid with more hot Asian chicks than an American man in Thailand?

It is a very funny thing, but most white people see "Asians" as this giant mass of crowd (kind of like comparing a Frenchman with an American). The fact is, socially Asians are more varied than you would know.

So no, Asians as a whole are not AFC because they do not exist. Individual Asians, like any individual, can be good or bad with women.


Just remember, simply because the media tells you all Asians are whizz computer/engineer geeks, black people kill anyone who breaths, and white people are scared of their own shadows, is not necessarily the truth.
 

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Originally posted by diplomatic_lie
Asians who get laid with more hot Asian chicks than an American man in Thailand?

lol, after spending some time in Thailand myself, I highly doubt that would ever happen! Unless u were an asian celeb!

As for the topic, I hope this doesnt start another Asian debate.

Every race has their AFCs and their non AFCs. As far as Asian woman, I am personally not a big fan. However Asian blokes are awesome, they have something western culture is seeming to forget these days, RESPECT!! Some of my best mates are Asian!
 
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