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asian males and caucasian women???? Is race an issue?

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Honestly it’s nothing special about white women. I find them the LEAST attractive .. Latino women are #1 in my eyes. Atleast looks wise.
I find Latinas most attractive but I'm going through a white girl fetish lol
 

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My grandmother was half Chinese. I melt white chicks, no problem.
 

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Because Asian women reject Asian men for White men. Google search it. An asian men and a black man almost have the same chances with Asian women which is very small.
It has nothing to do with race. It’s what a man can do for her. Asian, black, white, as long as the man has something she wants, she will be with him.

If a man wants a LTR with a woman, he has to make her dependent on him in someway. Otherwise she will stray the first chance she gets.
 

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That’s a lie. Asian women don’t dig black men. Atleast not in the northeast.
Black men do really well in South Korea.

There was also a Rich Chinese girl at my university, she used to refer to Black people as "monkeys" when she first came, two months later and she had a threesome with two black guys and is dating. One of which who became her Boyfriend.
 
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Filipino women usually open to dating black or latino men where I'm from. I'm half black, Filipino women are one of my biggest chasers. Probably 2nd most after Latina
 

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Filipino women usually open to dating black or latino men where I'm from. I'm half black, Filipino women are one of my biggest chasers. Probably 2nd most after Latina
Filipinas tend to be the most open minded culturally and s3xually... They're usually very down to earth.
 

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Hello to all my asian Don Juan brothers out there and also the rest of you Don Juans. I wanted to ask do you feel any backlash being an asian man trying to or gettting caucasion women? In the midwest its probably not as easy as living in a more predominately asian part of the country say like Hawaii or even California. Have you experienced biased or prejudice trying to date or hook up with caucasian women? Do caucasian women expect you to have a higher salary than caucasian males to be a suitable mate for them???? Most importantly is race even an issue? Or is it a mental block we give ourselves for our own insecurity??
I'mma keep it real with you, chief....yes, Asian men tend to struggle with all demographics of females but especially with White females.

I'm a Los Angeles native born and raised. Down here we have every demographic: White, black, Latino, Arab, Persian, Caucasian, Turkish, North African, Indian, Armenian, French, Italian, English, Russian, Czech, Japanese, Korean, Pakistani, Greek, Thai, Scandinavian, etc.....

....Cali is as liberal as you can possibly get, and Asian men still struggle down here with every demographic. So it's not a cultural issue of a red midwest state vs a blue state like cali....

Now I'm about to drop some serious truth: Asian men and Black females struggle in the dating market for similar reasons:

* Asian men are viewed as effeminate and weak, which is undesirable in males

* Black females are viewed as too masculine which is undesirable in females.

Notice that really feminine Black females like Kerry Washington, Tia & Tamara Mowry, Halle Berry are viewed as s3xy while Sarena Williams is not.

Notice that the really macho Asian guys like Hawaiians and Fillipinos do very well with females...well at least that's what I've noticed in L.A.

Growing up, most of the Fillipinos I knew were gang affiliated and they got all kinds of as$ from White girls and Latinas while the Chinese and Koreans were too busy studying and playing Magic the Gathering (and got no as$ from any demographic)....

So the simple solution is to hit the gym and be more assertive and masculine....
 
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OP you have already lost The Game because you idolize white women and women don't want to be idolized

That's a feminine position. Asian/Arab/Indian women idolize white features and white men because they view it as superior

A small percentage of whites go for black men, the large pen!s myth is another perception of superiority

Bottom line: Women want to idolize YOU. Not the reverse
 

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Hello to all my asian Don Juan brothers out there and also the rest of you Don Juans. I wanted to ask do you feel any backlash being an asian man trying to or gettting caucasion women? In the midwest its probably not as easy as living in a more predominately asian part of the country say like Hawaii or even California. Have you experienced biased or prejudice trying to date or hook up with caucasian women? Do caucasian women expect you to have a higher salary than caucasian males to be a suitable mate for them???? Most importantly is race even an issue? Or is it a mental block we give ourselves for our own insecurity??
I'm one of the earlier Asian DJ's in this community so i understand where you're coming from and the short answer is Yes. This is no different in life with anything else. Life is not equal for all, understand that and work with what you have since complaining about it won't improve you situation as these are the cards you're dealt. I've dated women of all races. My experience is women of all races on a larger scale will date you if you meet at least two of the below standards, no matter the race.

Again, two out of the three below typically works for majority of women. It helps if you also work to improve areas of weakness.

Attractive
Rich
Confident

I've had the best success with Asian women, obviously because i'm Asian. Caucasian, i've had some success but hit rate is lower. It really doesn't bother me as I don't complain about not being 6'5 or having an IQ of 180. I work on things I can change, not things I can't. Focusing on things you can't change gives you a negative mindset and is a big waste of time, because in the end, it still won't change. Understanding it and learning how to play the game is way more beneficial.

Dating is a numbers game. Increase your numbers, improve all 3 of the above, and reflect on your mistakes. Rinse, wash and repeat and success will come.
 

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I'm one of the earlier Asian DJ's in this community so i understand where you're coming from and the short answer is Yes. This is no different in life with anything else. Life is not equal for all, understand that and work with what you have since complaining about it won't improve you situation as these are the cards you're dealt. I've dated women of all races. My experience is women of all races on a larger scale will date you if you meet at least two of the below standards, no matter the race.

Again, two out of the three below typically works for majority of women. It helps if you also work to improve areas of weakness.

Attractive
Rich
Confident

I've had the best success with Asian women, obviously because i'm Asian. Caucasian, i've had some success but hit rate is lower. It really doesn't bother me as I don't complain about not being 6'5 or having an IQ of 180. I work on things I can change, not things I can't. Focusing on things you can't change gives you a negative mindset and is a big waste of time, because in the end, it still won't change. Understanding it and learning how to play the game is way more beneficial.

Dating is a numbers game. Increase your numbers, improve all 3 of the above, and reflect on your mistakes. Rinse, wash and repeat and success will come.
thank you for your advice. I dont fair so bad after all.
 

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I've never heard of a Asian male porn star lol.

Op i have a handful of Asian friends who are all playboys. Mostly date white girls.
 

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OP you have already lost The Game because you idolize white women and women don't want to be idolized

That's a feminine position. Asian/Arab/Indian women idolize white features and white men because they view it as superior

A small percentage of whites go for black men, the large pen!s myth is another perception of superiority

Bottom line: Women want to idolize YOU. Not the reverse
Man why is it always swarthy whites who are so gung ho about white supremacy? Overcompensation perhaps?

Wrong about Indian and Arab women, even wrong about most Asian women. Asian women idolize power and status, plain and simple, they go for any race that is popular by media. White men who commonly go for Asian women are rejected by white women.

The only reason you see white men with ethnic women a lot is because white men value game more than any other race out there. No other race travels en masse for sex. PUA was invented by white males.

Also strong double standard denial. White women LOVE BBC, black athletes have monopoly on top tier white girls, keep coping.
 

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Man why is it always swarthy whites who are so gung ho about white supremacy? Overcompensation perhaps?

Wrong about Indian and Arab women, even wrong about most Asian women. Asian women idolize power and status, plain and simple, they go for any race that is popular by media. White men who commonly go for Asian women are rejected by white women.

The only reason you see white men with ethnic women a lot is because white men value game more than any other race out there. No other race travels en masse for sex. PUA was invented by white males.

Also strong double standard denial. White women LOVE BBC, black athletes have monopoly on top tier white girls, keep coping.
so true
 
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