Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
It's easy to say something, but to walk the talk is hard. If I found out a woman was divorced but claim to be Christian and assuming the husband wasn't a wife beater or criminal, I would lose some respect for her.Yeah, she's divorced, been through 2 boyfriends. She seems to be in "older men" but fvcked a man younger than her. So, she already had sex with 3 minimum guys after her divorce.
THen uses lines like that. "As A Christian Mother" and "I know my value" lines. She is anti vaxxer type
She doesn't use online dating, she doesnt have facebook. She doesn't use online dating because she prefers to meet them in real person.
So, how would you categorize this one? promiscious, virgin mary pretender? quiet slut?
Always thisShe is trying to hide her shameful past.
Do you like this woman? What are your intentions with her?Yeah, she's divorced, been through 2 boyfriends. She seems to be in "older men" but fvcked a man younger than her. So, she already had sex with 3 minimum guys after her divorce.
THen uses lines like that. "As A Christian Mother" and "I know my value" lines. She is anti vaxxer type
She doesn't use online dating, she doesnt have facebook. She doesn't use online dating because she prefers to meet them in real person.
So, how would you categorize this one? promiscious, virgin mary pretender? quiet slut?
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Lolz someone regrets taking the death jabYeah, she's divorced, been through 2 boyfriends. She seems to be in "older men" but fvcked a man younger than her. So, she already had sex with 3 minimum guys after her divorce.
THen uses lines like that. "As A Christian Mother" and "I know my value" lines. She is anti vaxxer type
She doesn't use online dating, she doesnt have facebook. She doesn't use online dating because she prefers to meet them in real person.
So, how would you categorize this one? promiscious, virgin mary pretender? quiet slut?
The fact that she outs herself as politically divisive from the start means she's difficult. Especially since she's older. Same concept for the crazy eyed blue hair feminazis. You have to "match her energy" exactly and even then she's coming from an avoidant place. But that being said OP, if you're that strongly pro-vax you might be better off with the blue hair crowd. The normies will sniff this out and be turned off, the pandemic is long over with.Trump supporter older female. What is your first impression when you hear this
Disagree, imo it's more of a troll job. She can be these things without the early frame announcement (EFA) that it's "my way or the highway".I think it's similar to when a girl's bio say "not here for hookups", but comes over to **** you after a day or 2 of texting. Though she wanted to have some type of relationship with me afterwards...
She probably actually does value religion and values, and may be open to getting to know someone who shares the same. It's maybe like a pre-screening, to immediately filter out anyone who would be turned off by her interest, kinda weeding them out. Anyone that stays along means they could share similar mentalities, and she'll be more open to getting to know them and even hooking up, if you aren't faking it.
Idk, I think she sounds a little hurt and lonely, probably feels used from those past men, or just regrets her choices with them.So what's you guys verdict on an older woman like this? She's a latina who dyes her hair blonde btw.
Secret Slut? Doesn't sleep around much? 2 d1cks 1 hole?
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
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There's nothing wrong with having a political orientation and being feminine wanting a masculine man, but ime the more upfront and divisive they are about it, the more difficult they will be. The stronger bio text in this regard, the stronger the resting b1tch face. In this case it's coming from a place of avoidance.You never know what stuff like this means. The two women I know that are Trump supporters and would say things like this understand what men want out of a woman. They want masculine men, and they want to be feminine women. They realize that is rare thats why they say they have value.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.