article: What Happens to Men Who Can't Have Sex

[MatureDJ]

https://www.elle.com/life-love/sex-relationships/a33782/involuntary-celibacy/

 

[Dingo]

"Michael" sounds like many here on this site...

 

[skinnyguy]

Blame feminism for this; they wanted men to be asexual beings

 

[Dingo]

There is also a psychological component to this...

Some men and women just don't "get it".... They are destined to live alone.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Why don't they just pay for it?

 

[Mike32ct]

Why don't they just pay for it?

I would say two reasons.

1. They want a girl that genuinely likes them and is attracted to them. When they see other guys hooking up or having gfs, the idea of paying someone just doesn’t seem like the same thing.

2. A lot of these guys are really nervous around women, so paying for it and having to perform during a quick one hour session terrifies them.

 

[marmel75]

They can have sex. They choose to not put any effort into making themselves into a man women want to have sex with.

Men are not victims. These ridiculous posts making men out to be these wimpy, "woe is me" victims are everything that is wrong with men in society these days.

We control out destiny.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Blame feminism for this; they wanted men to be asexual beings

Man needs to take responsibility for self.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

They can have sex. They choose to not put any effort into making themselves into a man women want to have sex with.

Men are not victims. These ridiculous posts making men out to be these wimpy, "woe is me" victims are everything that is wrong with men in society these days.

We control out destiny.

When you complain about something around 2-3 times and don't take action on it you start putting yourself in "victim mindset" ( woe is me ). "Victim mindset" is useful for nothing at all but staying stuck in a position you don't want to be in.

I guarantee someone going years complaining about women or not getting enough ***** is going to go some more years complaining about women not getting enough *****. Once he stops complaining and taking action instead, his world around him will change.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

They want a girl that genuinely likes them

Maybe they should get over themselves and realize they're just a utility. Sad but true.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Maybe they should get over themselves and realize they're just a utility. Sad but true.

Richard

Don't have such a bleak outlook. Some of us have had or had women that love us almost as much as our mother. They loved who we are.

But 90+% of the guys that come to this site are asking how to game a attention wh0re or how to raise her interest . For that type of woman you are utility . You are a wallet, a provider, or you have social boost or connections or her friends like your circle . So yes your being used cause she's a H0E! And she should be used too! As a HO3. When it stops being fun replace her.

 

[btownbuck2012]

This article is what happens when the feminist social narrative dominates our culture.

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Can't have sex = no prostitutes.

Prostitution is natural.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

Yes, all this 'victimhood', whether first order [feminism] or second order [reaction to feminism] is built on the premise that I deserve to be happy [lacking here is any expression of gratitude and piety]. People simply do not understand that life is suffering [thanks to ideology], and the whole point of culture is to overcome this suffering. It really is a sad state of affairs.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Can't have sex = no prostitutes.

Prostitution is natural.

Relying on prostitute means you can't get sex without cash.

 

[ChristopherColumbus]

But try to imagine what it would be like if, for whatever reason, those more gratifying moments never arrived. Imagine that, while everyone else your age appears to have figured out love and dating and sex, you stayed more or less stuck in time as a psychosexual teenager. Imagine, say, being in a movie theater in 2005, listening to the audience erupt in laughter at the preview for The 40-Year-Old Virgin. Imagine what Top 40 radio sounds like. Imagine reading on the dating website Match.com that 42 percent of users (33 percent of the men, 51 of the women) indicated they would not date a virgin.

This article just pushes the orthodox line of the 'normalization' of sex. But imagine you were a more sensitive soul [a teenager?] that refused to look at life through a set of banal spectacles, and saw something more significant in sex. And then in associating 'incels' in the article [wow, there is a word for it] with potential mass murderers, it all starts to look a bit nasty... that people who are not engaging in casual sex are weirdos.... or losers.

 

[mrgoodstuff]

Yes, all this 'victimhood', whether first order [feminism] or second order [reaction to feminism] is built on the premise that I deserve to be happy [lacking here is any expression of gratitude and piety]. People simply do not understand that life is suffering [thanks to ideology], and the whole point of culture is to overcome this suffering. It really is a sad state of affairs.

Victim mode is weak. If man takes women away from the epicenter of his life he can be successful and be happy with no to minimum women . Be on your purpose. Complaining about feminism even if it's reality is weak . What are you going to do about it?

 

[RichardTheFrog]

Relying on prostitute means you can't get sex without cash.

With hot girls?.

That's most people

 

[MoreThanSmooth]

I've said it before and I'll say it again: the only difference between "incels" and "normal guy just not f*cking right now" (heck, even just "normal guy" in general) is a sense of entitlement and a pathetic lack of interest in developing social skills or self-improvement.

If you sit around crying all day you're not getting laid, strangely enough you're not going to get laid. How about going to the gym, or learning how to talk for 5 minutes without coming across like a total weirdo?

I've seen ex-soldiers with horrific facial injuries get girlfriends, and these goofballs who look pretty good most of the time sit around complaining their looks aren't good enough.

Not to mention that a lot of these guys almost seem to resent women and constantly sit around blaming them for their own inadequacies. And that's such an unattractive worldview even I feel repulsed by their total lack of balls and self-esteem, so women must see it like Kryptonite.

No one wants to date the guy with no social skills. No one wants to date the guy who thinks he's smarter than everyone else but actually he's unemployed and plays videogames for 16 hours every day. No one wants to date the guy who thinks he's really tough but actually he can't lift a 10 kg weight.

In fact: I know a guy who's 25 years old, he still loves Pokemon and dresses up like Pikachu in his FB profile pic, he's 3/10 in looks, he's 5'6", he's got a bad job and he's skinnyfat.

He still got laid.

Self improvement versus self pity. That's the difference between "incels" and "normals".

 

[mrgoodstuff]

With hot girls?.

That's most people

Hot girls have some regular dudes that's part of their social circle that hits it. Stop putting them hoez on a pedastal. They are flesh and blood like you .