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NOTE: This is from a Christian Evangelical perspective.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
What if the choice is between a hot OF and a land whale with so many folks of fat that you have to roll her around in flour to find the wet spot? Which one is going to do a better job of raising the flag?Yeah, I have not been on that for a while. It's wierd, I have only one subscription to one person, don't want to log back on there, and just don't care, like I just got frozen against going back on there for some reason.
Anyway, it's one of those articles that don't address the fact why guys are single or cares to address those issues but instead attacks the bandaid (ie OF). Whether or not you look at OF, if you don't have a woman who wants you enough to marry you and build a family together with you in the first place then that it's a completely useless point.
What guy in their right mind would even choose porn/OF over real women? They are going there because real women are rejecting them as a band-aid solution.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
They don't call it the worlds oldest profession for no reason! Every old west town that was relevant in history had a red light district.It's always been mainstream. It's even talked about in the Bible. One of Jesus' disciples/followers was a prostitute.
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Sex in real life is better than a virtual sexual experience behind a screen.Onlyfans is basically on-demand virtual prostitution.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
100%.Sex in real life is better than a virtual sexual experience behind a screen.
We are comparing in-person prostitution to virtual prostitution, not virtual prostitution to civvies / non-escort women?Sex in real life is better than a virtual sexual experience behind a screen.
All of Jesus' disciples were men. 12 Disciples, all guys.It's always been mainstream. It's even talked about in the Bible. One of Jesus' disciples/followers was a prostitute.
That's kind of like saying that murder has always been mainstream because it's talked about in the Bible. Just because something exists doesn't make it mainstream. When something is mainstream it means that it has widespread social acceptance.It's always been mainstream. It's even talked about in the Bible. One of Jesus' disciples/followers was a prostitute.
Mainstream means that its common knowledge that this exists. It's not some conspiracy theory or something talked about in the fringes (ie like vaccine side-effects back in 2021, or the policy of non-disclosure about UFO and EBE from downed craft, etc....). However, the real question, is if there are some grey-human female alien hybrids working as prostitutes. That definitely would not be mainstream and would be a conspiracy theory.That's kind of like saying that murder has always been mainstream because it's talked about in the Bible. Just because something exists doesn't make it mainstream. When something is mainstream it means that it has widespread social acceptance.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
It does have widespread social acceptance in many places.That's kind of like saying that murder has always been mainstream because it's talked about in the Bible. Just because something exists doesn't make it mainstream. When something is mainstream it means that it has widespread social acceptance.
Mainstream: having, reflecting, or being compatible with the prevailing attitudes and values of a society or group.Mainstream means that its common knowledge that this exists. It's not some conspiracy theory or something talked about in the fringes (ie like vaccine side-effects back in 2021, or the policy of non-disclosure about UFO and EBE from downed craft, etc....). However, the real question, is if there are some grey-human female alien hybrids working as prostitutes. That definitely would not be mainstream and would be a conspiracy theory.
Doesn't mean they can't be gigolosAll of Jesus' disciples were men. 12 Disciples, all guys.
He was referring to Mary Magdeline, who was not a disciple. Also Jesus ministered to harlots at that time to forgive their sins and give them a second chance.Doesn't mean they can't be gigolos
We live, sadly, in a feminist society. Prostitutes are another expression of freedom of what women can do with their bodies while guys are vilified for buying it. In Canada, its legal to sell, but illegal to buy.Mainstream: having, reflecting, or being compatible with the prevailing attitudes and values of a society or group.
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That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.