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NOTE: This is from a Christian Evangelical perspective.
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.
I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.
Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.
These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.
What if the choice is between a hot OF and a land whale with so many folks of fat that you have to roll her around in flour to find the wet spot? Which one is going to do a better job of raising the flag?Yeah, I have not been on that for a while. It's wierd, I have only one subscription to one person, don't want to log back on there, and just don't care, like I just got frozen against going back on there for some reason.
Anyway, it's one of those articles that don't address the fact why guys are single or cares to address those issues but instead attacks the bandaid (ie OF). Whether or not you look at OF, if you don't have a woman who wants you enough to marry you and build a family together with you in the first place then that it's a completely useless point.
What guy in their right mind would even choose porn/OF over real women? They are going there because real women are rejecting them as a band-aid solution.
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
They don't call it the worlds oldest profession for no reason! Every old west town that was relevant in history had a red light district.It's always been mainstream. It's even talked about in the Bible. One of Jesus' disciples/followers was a prostitute.
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Sex in real life is better than a virtual sexual experience behind a screen.Onlyfans is basically on-demand virtual prostitution.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
100%.Sex in real life is better than a virtual sexual experience behind a screen.
We are comparing in-person prostitution to virtual prostitution, not virtual prostitution to civvies / non-escort women?Sex in real life is better than a virtual sexual experience behind a screen.
All of Jesus' disciples were men. 12 Disciples, all guys.It's always been mainstream. It's even talked about in the Bible. One of Jesus' disciples/followers was a prostitute.
That's kind of like saying that murder has always been mainstream because it's talked about in the Bible. Just because something exists doesn't make it mainstream. When something is mainstream it means that it has widespread social acceptance.It's always been mainstream. It's even talked about in the Bible. One of Jesus' disciples/followers was a prostitute.
Mainstream means that its common knowledge that this exists. It's not some conspiracy theory or something talked about in the fringes (ie like vaccine side-effects back in 2021, or the policy of non-disclosure about UFO and EBE from downed craft, etc....). However, the real question, is if there are some grey-human female alien hybrids working as prostitutes. That definitely would not be mainstream and would be a conspiracy theory.That's kind of like saying that murder has always been mainstream because it's talked about in the Bible. Just because something exists doesn't make it mainstream. When something is mainstream it means that it has widespread social acceptance.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
It does have widespread social acceptance in many places.That's kind of like saying that murder has always been mainstream because it's talked about in the Bible. Just because something exists doesn't make it mainstream. When something is mainstream it means that it has widespread social acceptance.
Mainstream: having, reflecting, or being compatible with the prevailing attitudes and values of a society or group.Mainstream means that its common knowledge that this exists. It's not some conspiracy theory or something talked about in the fringes (ie like vaccine side-effects back in 2021, or the policy of non-disclosure about UFO and EBE from downed craft, etc....). However, the real question, is if there are some grey-human female alien hybrids working as prostitutes. That definitely would not be mainstream and would be a conspiracy theory.
Doesn't mean they can't be gigolosAll of Jesus' disciples were men. 12 Disciples, all guys.
He was referring to Mary Magdeline, who was not a disciple. Also Jesus ministered to harlots at that time to forgive their sins and give them a second chance.Doesn't mean they can't be gigolos
We live, sadly, in a feminist society. Prostitutes are another expression of freedom of what women can do with their bodies while guys are vilified for buying it. In Canada, its legal to sell, but illegal to buy.Mainstream: having, reflecting, or being compatible with the prevailing attitudes and values of a society or group.
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You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.