"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
article on 'modern man' and feminism.
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
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long but good read. one of the most powerful things a man can have, is the ability to walk away from a woman, or any other losing situation at the drop of a hat. lifes too short to walk on eggshells or put up with someones bxll**** all the time.
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This article's old.
I wouldn't give much credit for the writer. He sounds like an a***ole. Insecure, manipulative and undignified. He's just parroted stuff he's read on seduction websites. I read up some articles by his wife... sure, she is insecure and did a stupid thing by writing about their marriage in a national newspaper, but a real man wouldn't go so low as to describe how he fu***d his wife after he cheated on her. Maybe women are horrible and evil, but there has to be some respect if you call your union a marriage. His action is not even juvenile, just vile.
Here's one of his wifes columns:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=456237&in_page_id=1879
Here's one of his wifes columns:
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/live/femail/article.html?in_article_id=456237&in_page_id=1879
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Okay, that paints a completely different picture on this guy.Ever since I stumbled, by accident, across an email to a woman, Daphne, arranging to have coffee with her in New York on my birthday last September, despite the fact that he was on his knees, tears whooshing out of his big, dark eyes, begging me not to throw him out, telling me how much he loved me and would never, ever cheat on me again, I have been waiting for it to happen again.
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Bah. Yet another shining example of why the institution of marriage and exclusive relationships is doomed to fail. One of the biggest problems in the world is this burdening belief in the 'true love' myth. Sure there are those rare perfect marriages, but how many of those aren't rife with conflict. So my point is, what's the point? Why include oneself in such a transaction? It's so utterly pointless that I am really lost on why people bother with marriage and monogamy. It's holding us back. The most valid argument for monogamy is that broken homes tend to result in psychologically disordered progeny, while stable homes make for stabler societies. Just look at how most men in prison were fatherless and you will see what I mean.
But a family can be healthy regardless of whether the father or mother are together. One or the other can even be absent. What matters is that a child gets adequate nurturing from multiple adults throughout their development, preferably from both men and women. SO this pretty much throws the moral approach to marriage out the door. While it may have worked as a buffer against strife in biblical times, we need to go beyond taking orders from moral doctrines about how we should conduct our affairs.
But a family can be healthy regardless of whether the father or mother are together. One or the other can even be absent. What matters is that a child gets adequate nurturing from multiple adults throughout their development, preferably from both men and women. SO this pretty much throws the moral approach to marriage out the door. While it may have worked as a buffer against strife in biblical times, we need to go beyond taking orders from moral doctrines about how we should conduct our affairs.
Her own wordsNighthawk said:How do you accidentally stumble on an email again?
Yeah, thats sound really accidentally.I have been hacking into his emails (quite easy, actually, even when he set up a secret account), listening to his voice mails and reading his text messages