Every creation in this world, from insects, to birds, to trees, to animals, to plants and even worms, are striving to do their best, isn't it so?
And what have you done so far?
Even God's will cry.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
article: My Opinion: Most Men Aren’t Husband Material
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And what have you done so far?
Even God's will cry.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
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Create a life that has allowed me a greater purpose than de-railing threads.
Then don't surround urself with people who talks abt other people but surround urself with people who talks abt ideas and visions.
Is that difficult to do?
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When you are around, yes, it is difficult to do.
Bible_Belt
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Nobody wants that woman on their lap, much less to fall on them. Ouch.
The article is about a woman having less market value because she is a big fat whale, but instead of owning up to that fact, she blames the men of the world. Fatty entitlement is the driving force behind women like her.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Everybody wants this and that, then goes on to say that because of them I become this.
But it's the other way round, its because u r like that, then they become so.
Just like a man who marries but wants houses, cars, vacations and a whole multitude of things, working himself to death.
He goes on to say that ONLY because of his family he becomes like that.
But it's actually the other way round.
He became that man not because of his family, he became that man because he is like that, and because of him, his family became like that.
When a man identifies himself with a certain mindset, then certain things will happen.
Is it not true?
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Maybe a 2? 3 at the most??And yup, the writer of this article look's says it all. LOL.
