"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sounds like the one one crying here is you.
Every creation in this world, from insects, to birds, to trees, to animals, to plants and even worms, are striving to do their best, isn't it so?

And what have you done so far?

Even God's will cry.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Create a life that has allowed me a greater purpose than de-railing threads.
Then don't surround urself with people who talks abt other people but surround urself with people who talks abt ideas and visions.

Is that difficult to do?
 

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Then don't surround urself with people who talks abt other people but surround urself with people who talks abt ideas and visions.

Is that difficult to do?
When you are around, yes, it is difficult to do.
 

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Bunch of entitled men, always wanting to have things fall on their laps.
Nobody wants that woman on their lap, much less to fall on them. Ouch.

The article is about a woman having less market value because she is a big fat whale, but instead of owning up to that fact, she blames the men of the world. Fatty entitlement is the driving force behind women like her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Nobody wants that woman on their lap, much less to fall on them. Ouch.

The article is about a woman having less market value because she is a big fat whale, but instead of owning up to that fact, she blames the men of the world. Fatty entitlement is the driving force behind women like her.
Everybody wants this and that, then goes on to say that because of them I become this.

But it's the other way round, its because u r like that, then they become so.

Just like a man who marries but wants houses, cars, vacations and a whole multitude of things, working himself to death.

He goes on to say that ONLY because of his family he becomes like that.

But it's actually the other way round.

He became that man not because of his family, he became that man because he is like that, and because of him, his family became like that.

When a man identifies himself with a certain mindset, then certain things will happen.

Is it not true?
 
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