Every creation in this world, from insects, to birds, to trees, to animals, to plants and even worms, are striving to do their best, isn't it so?
And what have you done so far?
Even God's will cry.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
article: My Opinion: Most Men Aren’t Husband Material
- Thread starter MatureDJ
- Start date
And what have you done so far?
Even God's will cry.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 29, 2020
- Messages
- 2,792
- Reaction score
- 2,125
Create a life that has allowed me a greater purpose than de-railing threads.
Then don't surround urself with people who talks abt other people but surround urself with people who talks abt ideas and visions.
Is that difficult to do?
CAPSLOCK BANDIT
Master Don Juan
- Joined
- Jul 29, 2020
- Messages
- 2,792
- Reaction score
- 2,125
When you are around, yes, it is difficult to do.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Nobody wants that woman on their lap, much less to fall on them. Ouch.
The article is about a woman having less market value because she is a big fat whale, but instead of owning up to that fact, she blames the men of the world. Fatty entitlement is the driving force behind women like her.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Everybody wants this and that, then goes on to say that because of them I become this.
But it's the other way round, its because u r like that, then they become so.
Just like a man who marries but wants houses, cars, vacations and a whole multitude of things, working himself to death.
He goes on to say that ONLY because of his family he becomes like that.
But it's actually the other way round.
He became that man not because of his family, he became that man because he is like that, and because of him, his family became like that.
When a man identifies himself with a certain mindset, then certain things will happen.
Is it not true?
BackInTheGame78
Moderator
- Joined
- Sep 10, 2014
- Messages
- 16,864
- Reaction score
- 19,093
Maybe a 2? 3 at the most??And yup, the writer of this article look's says it all. LOL.
