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article: Many young men are shunning sex. Is it because feminism and #MeToo are constant reminders of the inferiority of male identity?

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Idk bro, if I found a beautiful and sexy young woman who will submit to me just like that, I’d probably spend a lot less time on here. But even if she did, like if she submit to me and would be sweet and feminine to me but is a bitch to others, that wouldn’t sit right with me.
Hey bro if you got it like this, you might as well be happy. That's how a great many are! If your lucky they are down for you and your cause, and might be "bitchy" with most other people.

I want someone who is actually good as a person. I swear to God, when I was younger, I was like that. Naively innocent and a good person. And I thought others were too. I’m still looking for that, that sincerity. Lord knows I had my demons too, but those came about due to environment and family, not my own doing. I’ve since worked on all of them.
Dude there are degrees of "good" and "bad", no body is going to be perfect. If she can be attractive enough, and but over all mostly look after you, you better be grateful!

But man it’s still sad. It bothers me because I used to be the type of dude where if I was married, and had a pornstar-looking hottie come into me and straddle me when no one is around and ask me to **** her, I’d have been like “no I’m married”. I’d be kicking myself for the rest of my life after, but I still wouldn’t cheat.
Porn stars aren't even all that. IF you watch them when they start out earlier, many of them where street hoez or low end strippers and converted, they didn't even look that good at first until makeup, boobs and special affects.

But in anycase, you can have a fine enough wife at home with good sex to the point where you turn down other babes.

And I was like this even after I was redpilled for a little while. But I realized the vast majority of women wouldn’t do that for me, they wouldn’t stop [/themselves if they were in the same situation. And the thing is, if you actually were to ask any of these women about this, of course they’d say they wouldn’t cheat; most of them would even believe that too. But that’s just because they imagine themselves getting cheated on, and how they’d feel if it happened to them. In reality, they’re just saying cheating is wrong against them. It’s not that they actually are loyal, they just get more fiery jealous than men. They just project that fiery jealousy onto the act of cheating, and assume they would ‘never’ cheat under any circumstances because when you ask them this, they think of themselves getting cheated on, this affecting their mood to have such a strong aversion to cheating. But if you put them in a different mood and play your cards right for long enough, all women will cheat. Bar none. Bar none. Bar none. And I know for a FACT that there are men out there who wouldn’t cheat even if they wanted to because I used to be one of those guys, and also because I still know of quite a few who are still like that. Women? I haven’t met one.

At this point, if I were in a relationship with a woman, I’d cheat on her every chance I got. Your average American woman doesn’t deserve loyalty, they don’t even deserve to know that they’re being cheated on lmao
On average you probably are true. In my studies, and I tried to do it "straight and narrow" a small amount of cheating or possibility to cheat might have to remain part of a man to keep the masculine and feminine balance. If you are "too good" to them, they become ungrateful and bad. So it's best to have a small amount of dirt to balance things.


What if you had a great relationship and you did "something" every three months, that you forget about. No addiction to it, no double life, nothing hardly to be tracked. What if that kept things balanced and a wife who kept trying to earn her keep over the years?


I’m not in a relationship anyway, and I still am not at the point yet where I’d straight up lie to a girl to get some tail, nor would I actually go out of my way to cheat on a girl (yet). But after a year or so, I really don’t think I can handle this much longer. I’d just have to become an evil POS. I’m hoping it doesn’t get to that but **** me man, it’s a cold war out there lol
Gotta have a gf before you can have a relationship
Gotta get puzzy before you get a girlfriend
Gotta talk to babes before you can get puzzy
 

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Hey bro if you got it like this, you might as well be happy. That's how a great many are! If your lucky they are down for you and your cause, and might be "bitchy" with most other people.


Dude there are degrees of "good" and "bad", no body is going to be perfect. If she can be attractive enough, and but over all mostly look after you, you better be grateful!



Porn stars aren't even all that. IF you watch them when they start out earlier, many of them where street hoez or low end strippers and converted, they didn't even look that good at first until makeup, boobs and special affects.

But in anycase, you can have a fine enough wife at home with good sex to the point where you turn down other babes.


On average you probably are true. In my studies, and I tried to do it "straight and narrow" a small amount of cheating or possibility to cheat might have to remain part of a man to keep the masculine and feminine balance. If you are "too good" to them, they become ungrateful and bad. So it's best to have a small amount of dirt to balance things.


What if you had a great relationship and you did "something" every three months, that you forget about. No addiction to it, no double life, nothing hardly to be tracked. What if that kept things balanced and a wife who kept trying to earn her keep over the years?




Gotta have a gf before you can have a relationship
Gotta get puzzy before you get a girlfriend
Gotta talk to babes before you can get puzzy
The problem is, I don’t want “good enough”. That’ll piss me off to all hell. I didn’t wait this long and suffer this much just for “good enough”. Back in my bluepill days, yeah, maybe. But now? No. I know what a woman COULD be. I now know how wonderful they could become, and I know what’s possible and what’s not. I’m making myself into the male version of that with having that dangerous edge within me who’s bold and daring and tries sexually risky things with her, etc. I’m that guy. But I want her to be that girl for me too though. And only for me lol. But that’s too much to ask for. Like dude, when I come across stories of women cooking for their men or washing their clothes or buying them gifts or something, it just feels so foreign to me now. Like, that actually happens? What? I had a friend of mine who said that his ex did that for him (he was telling a story) and I was just like shocked like wtf? Come again? Did I hear that right? Lmao I’m not making this up. But apparently it used to be a thing. And some women still do that? Or maybe women never did and it’s always been a very small select few women throughout history who did those things for their men. Idk lol it really trips me out to think about that. And I feel like it shouldn’t. Like gender roles exist and all that, but to actually imagine a woman doing that for her man, I can’t anymore. Unless it’s like some super old school scenario but it’s always an older middle-aged woman in an advertisement-esque way, never a young girl my age. I can’t comprehend it anymore. The feminists have won ig, I can’t imagine a woman cooking or cleaning anymore.

But at the same time, I know I won’t stand for a woman who doesn’t do those things for me all the time. I’d 100% cheat on her whenever I could lol because if she doesn’t do those things for me, then she’s only useful for her vagina. I can’t trust her to pay for dates or anything, then she’d lose attraction towards me because all women still expect men to fulfill their gender role. I also can’t expect her to help around the house because women don’t ever fulfill their own gender roles nowadays since it’s sexist. Not to mention, we can’t be married either because of how that changes relationship dynamics (even though it shouldn’t); they’ll only change from her end too. Not mention screwy gynocentric laws, which, by the way, also means she especially can’t pay for even utility bills or property taxes or anything like that.

Overall, what are they good for? Talking? Most can’t hold a conversation about anything interesting without turning you into one of their girlfriends and neutering you in the process. It’s ridiculous. Like I said, I can’t imagine a woman fulfilling her gender role anymore, but I know that if she doesn’t, I’ll just straightup cheat since all she’s good for is sex then, because if that’s the case, I might as well act like I’m single lol. She’d also probably be cheating on me anyway. I’d only stay in a relationship with her as social proof to attract more women to me, and also so that I can still have access to sex once the sex supply starts slowing down with other women as I get older. I don’t trust these hoes bro, I don’t like them. At this point in time, “fuck bitches, get money” is the only motto we should live by cuz that’s all that life is really about anymore. Side hobbies too.
 

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ok, I figured out after a few minutes it was going to be all sex related examples and made a bet with myself I wouldn't see any concrete, specific examples of feminine women acting feminine. lol. its ok, I get that concentrating on negatives keeps us all indignant and stronger.
Took me awhile to get this.
Is indigant ever a good thing?
 

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I wish men who think like this could actually write concrete and specific examples they are genuinely experiencing, so that other men know what to also look for.
Example: today this woman dropped off lasagna
Example: yesterday that woman wouldn't leave my bathroom until she was satisfied it was thoroughly cleaned and I didn't ask her to do it.
Example: last Saturday at an event, a woman deferred to me for my knowledgeable opinion on such and such instead of spouting tough, empty talk like a feminist did at the same event

etc etc
"Tough, empty talk"
 

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Is indigant ever a good thing?
glad you asked, no I definitely DON'T think so because one gets stuck in a negative self feedback loop(there's probably a better psychology term)
This is what I once in awhile protest/speak up about.
At what point does one stop commiserating and start leading by example and listing what to look for. When does one leap forward with healing?
I just did the very same thing....I commiserated.
And actually, I came up with a solution upon waking this morning.
 

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"Tough, empty talk"
yes the "we don't need no man, we are strong, independent women" talk of feminists
Posturing.
Actually very weak or wouldn't have to talk tough and empty.
They (I) are hesitant to make the leap to feminine as there is no income replacement, no assured protection.
 

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yes the "we don't need no man, we are strong, independent women" talk of feminists
Posturing.
Actually very weak or wouldn't have to talk tough and empty.
They (I) are hesitant to make the leap to feminine as there is no income replacement, no assured protection.
One uppance and all that
 

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Really seems to be a two-tiered system. I doubt either tier can comprehend the lifestyle of the other.
 

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That is the problem with movements the loudest and most emotional are the most influential.

That is why I think this website is a good compromise. People are more relaxed.
I think this website is for non-Chads who haven't lost all hope - like our brothers @ [incels.co] have. Chads are too busy slaying, and don't have to "game" to get poontang. :rolleyes:
 

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Ok, after one week of No porn No fap I said "fück it" and called a new hooker this morning. Spent an invigorating 30 minutes brewing up a week's load of gaff to dump on her tongue and face. She looked like a plasterer's radio when I'd finished.

Her working friend looks like Amanda Seyfried... o_O I think this is gonna get expensive.

Technically I didn't break No porn No fap!
 

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I think this website is for non-Chads who haven't lost all hope - like our brothers @ [incels.co] have. Chads are too busy slaying, and don't have to "game" to get poontang. :rolleyes:
Or guys like me, in a relationship, but who are at risk of reverting to a blue-pilled beta simp. This site keeps me grounded in red/black pill reality.
 

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Ok, after one week of No porn No fap I said "fück it" and called a new hooker this morning. Spent an invigorating 30 minutes brewing up a week's load of gaff to dump on her tongue and face. She looked like a plasterer's radio when I'd finished.

Her working friend looks like Amanda Seyfried... o_O I think this is gonna get expensive.

Technically I didn't break No porn No fap!
I've found a place where an attractive white masseuse will give me a half-hour massage (with a happy ending of course :)) for about $35, so even with me being in a strict financial situation due to COVID, I can still get the tension released. I think a good handjob with baby oil is in the ballpark with bareback oral.
 

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I've found a place where an attractive white masseuse will give me a half-hour massage (with a happy ending of course :)) for about $35, so even with me being in a strict financial situation due to COVID, I can still get the tension released. I think a good handjob with baby oil is in the ballpark with bareback oral.
Thats what I call the best cost/benefit ratio, 35 dollars for 30 minutes massage is already a decent deal but with the happy ending becomes a real deal.

How old is she?
 

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Ok, after one week of No porn No fap I said "fück it" and called a new hooker this morning. Spent an invigorating 30 minutes brewing up a week's load of gaff to dump on her tongue and face. She looked like a plasterer's radio when I'd finished.

Her working friend looks like Amanda Seyfried... o_O I think this is gonna get expensive.

Technically I didn't break No porn No fap!
...and you are still here and no demon followed you home? How is your relationship with God?
 
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