"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Does anyone else think Roosh just needs a hug?

Dude has some serious issues.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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I just consider things in terms of an all-around quality of life. And I don't consider the quality of life to be very good. That's an understatement :)

Consider the quality of life afforded to the generation of hippies that pissed it all away: vibrant communities, amazingly low housing costs, solid family unit, completely free university and amazing quality of education, a job for life, good local and national democratic representation, etc etc.

It's seriously amazing what has happened. They've created a society that doubtfully can even sustain itself for a century.
I have recently been pondering this. Humans, as for any animal, are endowed with biological imperatives and the instincts & emotions that have evolved along with it. Earlier men figured out that because of humans' need to care for & raise the young, the female sexual imperative had to be tamed, which it was via the strong cultural more of marriage as pre-selected by the parents. This has obviously served to forward the symbiosis of man's biological imperative and society's development. However, femyninism has in large part destroyed this cultural symbiosis, and thus society will continue on as per this femynism but also the biological imperative. The most important imperative is that men seek to have sex, and when sex is not forthcoming they get belligerent, which is why we have the pillars of society spending their youth in destructive ways, men that can be seduced into thinking that killing thousands of people will result in "72 virgins", and Supreme Gentlemen who are spurned by women to go on murderous rampages. About the only good thing that society has been doing to ameliorate this is the explosion in internet p0rn, and the eventual development of sexbots.
 

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About the only good thing that society has been doing to ameliorate this is the explosion in internet p0rn, and the eventual development of sexbots.
 

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I have recently been pondering this. Humans, as for any animal, are endowed with biological imperatives and the instincts & emotions that have evolved along with it. Earlier men figured out that because of humans' need to care for & raise the young, the female sexual imperative had to be tamed, which it was via the strong cultural more of marriage as pre-selected by the parents. This has obviously served to forward the symbiosis of man's biological imperative and society's development. However, femyninism has in large part destroyed this cultural symbiosis, and thus society will continue on as per this femynism but also the biological imperative. The most important imperative is that men seek to have sex, and when sex is not forthcoming they get belligerent, which is why we have the pillars of society spending their youth in destructive ways, men that can be seduced into thinking that killing thousands of people will result in "72 virgins", and Supreme Gentlemen who are spurned by women to go on murderous rampages. About the only good thing that society has been doing to ameliorate this is the explosion in internet p0rn, and the eventual development of sexbots.
not much for control and more for, if she didn't she would be alone, and her clock is ticking, and after having kids she had to hold her hubby if not no men of respect would waste time with her, in the end is not about control only, is men not having standards and being a man, today a lot of guys would date and marry a woman with someone else kid, less then a decate no man would waste time in inviting someone like that to his family and household
 

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He’s not wrong per se, but engaging in such pondering becomes Sartrean in nature. L’enfer c’est les autres. Hell is others(other people).

Ultimately, we can only control our own choices. The impetus for men as a whole is to stop rewarding and tolerating bad behavior and hold high standards.

After all if women who are 49’ers were ignored they’d have to change their tune.

Granted, there will still be men who are thirsty for said women so the key here is addressing your own personal standards.

If you are busting your butt to improve your self in all areas why wouldn’t you hold a woman to that standard? It still applies whether you are 6 months, 1 year, 5 years, 10 years into a relationship.

That’s what each man can control take care of yourself, be willing to walk, and refuse to tolerate/accept ****ty behavior.
 

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All I see is a bunch of complaining. Also people crying over females being hoez.
They are only complaining because no females are being ho's with them. If they were part of their "ho" circle they would be happy.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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He's says things I agree with and things I don't agree with. Personally think he might be a bit racist, seems like a know it all also
 

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All you have are black pills but no practical strategies to change things. What are you doing in your own life to improve for the better?
the best thing you can do is to make them earn, I mean really earn your exclusivity. Never combine your finances and have a strict, very strict, pre-nup that includes kids before you would ever even consider getting married. If she chases you, takes care of you, satisfies you, signs any document you want, should be enough of a sign that she's down for you.
 

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the best thing you can do is to make them earn, I mean really earn your exclusivity. Never combine your finances and have a strict, very strict, pre-nup that includes kids before you would ever even consider getting married. If she chases you, takes care of you, satisfies you, signs any document you want, should be enough of a sign that she's down for you.
Well said. I was just pointing out that maturedj only points out what's wrong with the world, but never offers any feedback on how he is improving HIMSELF. Here is one thread:

https://www.sosuave.net/forum/threa...journey-to-actualising-ones-potential.239799/

I've seen others complain about how negative the forum is. I'm starting to see why. Some posters are only posting what's negative yet has zero constructive feedback. But kudos to you, as you are getting right to the point.

I suppose we should rely on others to post something useful.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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That's not true at all :/

Some of us look for the next lay whilst Rome burns. Some do pushups whilst Rome burns. etc.

The other day, a friend suggested we go swimming or something. Don't know what came over him.

All kinds of crazy sh1t going on.
I'm tired of complaining
They are only complaining because no females are being ho's with them. If they were part of their "ho" circle they would be happy.
Ho circle?
 

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I can't even read the red pill blogs and sites anymore.. To negative.
Thats what i was saying. We need to live and be happy. If female is stealing your energy and joy next her. You cant focus on rhe negative aspects daily and be happy.
 

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I can't even read the red pill blogs and sites anymore.. To negative.
That's because they're actually black pill sites. Of course there is overlap but the red pill should offer the full range of facts: both positive and negative aspects of reality. Feminism leads to role confusion true as well as lots of other objectively negative outcomes (black pills) but debunking the gender equality myth should give confidence as a man (red pill).
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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