“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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article: After years of progress on gender, the male gaze is back

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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It's back in THE MAINSTREAM, kinda sorta, in the form of the entire planet ogling Sydney Sweeney: Beautiful, scantily clad lasses have remained omnipresent on Instagram and OF, even at the height of MeToo

We may be going through a cycle similar to the one our civilization experienced as The 80s(A decade where mainstream culture largely went family-friendly, on the heels of an era in which Deep Throat and Behind The Green Door received wide-spread theatrical release)wound down...

Slowly but surely, T&A returned to prominence as we got deeper into The 90s, when Sports Illustrated's Swimsuit Edition became a more pervasive cultural presence, and Victoria's Secret, Baywatch, and ads such as these
were venerated, rather than triggering aneurysms in the heads of yahoos like Babs Bush and Tipper Gore. Who, only about 12 years earlier, led a crusade to rid the airwaves of Prince and Sheena Easton
 

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Personally? Lame marketing trick (arising out of abusing feminist theory) because companies are losing profits, the media is losing subscribers, and consumers are actually becoming smarter with their choices. The "male gaze", a simple term for an action that's been done by men and women alike since the dawn of time, seems just made, or manufactured, for the virality of news articles and advertisements and related movies that the newsroom/corporation want you to watch.

I mean please, no one can buy in these stocked department stores even if all clothes are already on 70% sale, because the wealthy have abused their motives on capitalist efficiency and are now feeling the slowing down of revenue. Just forgetting how too much supply leads to little to no demand.

We're being sold a term, and dictated a term, supposedly about who we are. I just don't buy it.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

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Nature is healing
Much as I hope this is so, this "return of The Male Gaze" the article bemoans refers almost exclusively to Sydney Sweeney's rise to fame, while ignoring a couple of key facts: She remains an outlier in modern Hollywood... Androgyny/outright mannishness still remains rampant among the latest crop of actresses Hollywood's trying to peddle as sex symbols

We're hardly out of the woods just yet
 

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Yeah - the fact it is a CNN article tells you everything you need to know without even clicking on it. Some type of lamenting "toxic masculinity" I am sure is where this author's head is at. Lamenting everything that is natural for their perverse "strong female" bologna. No thanks.
 

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Yeah - the fact it is a CNN article tells you everything you need to know without even clicking on it. Some type of lamenting "toxic masculinity" I am sure is where this author's head is at
At most points in history, everyone thinks their "side" is getting clobbered by The Evil Overlords who secretly rule the planet. We've been through something similar before

Yet the perspective offered at 1:27-1:50

Clearly WAS NOT universal

Many found the "backlash" against Feminism Susan Faludi charged The 80s with to be an illusion
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

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