MatureDJ
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Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
Much as I hope this is so, this "return of The Male Gaze" the article bemoans refers almost exclusively to Sydney Sweeney's rise to fame, while ignoring a couple of key facts: She remains an outlier in modern Hollywood... Androgyny/outright mannishness still remains rampant among the latest crop of actresses Hollywood's trying to peddle as sex symbolsNature is healing
At most points in history, everyone thinks their "side" is getting clobbered by The Evil Overlords who secretly rule the planet. We've been through something similar beforeYeah - the fact it is a CNN article tells you everything you need to know without even clicking on it. Some type of lamenting "toxic masculinity" I am sure is where this author's head is at
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What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.
You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.
Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.
It's a more original topic of conversation than having yet another stale debate over which specific season The Simpsons went downhillWho cares?