PeasantPlayer
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Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
Are you wasting to much time chasing women?
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
OlympicTim
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I don't know if you posted this seriously but it honestly opened up my eyes a lot
PeasantPlayer
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That's good, not me in the video lol. Found it (maybe for a reason) its simple to the point
:crackup: great piss take. as we say in Oz.
but yeah on the serious side you shouldn't be doing all this Facebook s***. if you're doing OLD spam the girls and get a quick Number grab. if you're doing cold approach 10 to 15 minutes max get the number or not hit and run.
I treat myself with morning Maccas on a Saturday especially if I've been out for beers on Friday. I sat down and chatted with two Korean girls there last week. I have to go to our equivalent of Home Depot today. if I see a cute woman I ll approach and if I don't I ll flirt with the counter chicks. I have to buy a book I'm reading for a book club. I read books so I can easly start a conversation with any cute girls in the bookstore. U get the idea.
The main thing is to always be on then you really not wasting much time. and you're practicing all the time ....at the end of the day you are as you train.
whether you are successful or not is much more about how the chicks feeling on the day so why wouldn't you approach all the time and let random luck work for you.
but yeah on the serious side you shouldn't be doing all this Facebook s***. if you're doing OLD spam the girls and get a quick Number grab. if you're doing cold approach 10 to 15 minutes max get the number or not hit and run.
I treat myself with morning Maccas on a Saturday especially if I've been out for beers on Friday. I sat down and chatted with two Korean girls there last week. I have to go to our equivalent of Home Depot today. if I see a cute woman I ll approach and if I don't I ll flirt with the counter chicks. I have to buy a book I'm reading for a book club. I read books so I can easly start a conversation with any cute girls in the bookstore. U get the idea.
The main thing is to always be on then you really not wasting much time. and you're practicing all the time ....at the end of the day you are as you train.
whether you are successful or not is much more about how the chicks feeling on the day so why wouldn't you approach all the time and let random luck work for you.
Yup. I spent a good 10 years chasing puss and got nothing out of it. Guys in their 20s should not waste time on puss.
The good thing is I was never a girl's emotional tampon and I didn't fix her car. I just spent a lot of time on OLD.
Now luckily I'm happy with my life. Wouldn't change that much. I'm not dependent on puss and I'm highly respected in my community.
The good thing is I was never a girl's emotional tampon and I didn't fix her car. I just spent a lot of time on OLD.
Now luckily I'm happy with my life. Wouldn't change that much. I'm not dependent on puss and I'm highly respected in my community.
“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
amazingswayze
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this video is cool but it isn't a big deal to me. he has a great point but i think other guys have it worse. i mean, i do spend some time chasing puss but at least im not a beta bvtch stuck in the friend zone. im getting my education, to have a career, and i talk to girls when i see fit.
i think this guy in the video cares way too much.
regardless, good post OP. some guys probably need this more than i do.
i think this guy in the video cares way too much.
regardless, good post OP. some guys probably need this more than i do.
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The video makes me think about virgins giving advice on sex. Which is what a lot of posters on this forum do. While it may be good advice, it doesn't come from experience which is more valuable then regurgitation from a book. If I needed information that came from a book, then I would read the book not ask a guy who read the book.PeasantPlayer said:
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I don't know what the guys experience is in life or with women, but what he says is 100 percent true, work on yourself and the rest falls in place. Is it easy? Nope never is, will it require patience? yup....I don't think he meant completely ignore women, just don't be caught up in their drama, don't waste time on social dating sites or being creepy and randomly adding them on facebook. To much time is being wasted not to be a better you. He implied women are hypergamus which I think is true hate to say it.
Its not different then getting advice from a screen name on here
Its true. But I d also add work hard on your social circle and social skills. If u have that in place finding a quality woman is easier when u want. I d also say if u want kids don't wait too long. At 35 u d be actively searching and screening hard for a 25 YO. Otherwise u all find most of the good ones married or single mums.