"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Are you wasting to much time chasing women?

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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I don't know if you posted this seriously but it honestly opened up my eyes a lot
 

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That's good, not me in the video lol. Found it (maybe for a reason) its simple to the point
 

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:crackup: great piss take. as we say in Oz.

but yeah on the serious side you shouldn't be doing all this Facebook s***. if you're doing OLD spam the girls and get a quick Number grab. if you're doing cold approach 10 to 15 minutes max get the number or not hit and run.

I treat myself with morning Maccas on a Saturday especially if I've been out for beers on Friday. I sat down and chatted with two Korean girls there last week. I have to go to our equivalent of Home Depot today. if I see a cute woman I ll approach and if I don't I ll flirt with the counter chicks. I have to buy a book I'm reading for a book club. I read books so I can easly start a conversation with any cute girls in the bookstore. U get the idea.

The main thing is to always be on then you really not wasting much time. and you're practicing all the time ....at the end of the day you are as you train.


whether you are successful or not is much more about how the chicks feeling on the day so why wouldn't you approach all the time and let random luck work for you.
 

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Yup. I spent a good 10 years chasing puss and got nothing out of it. Guys in their 20s should not waste time on puss.

The good thing is I was never a girl's emotional tampon and I didn't fix her car. I just spent a lot of time on OLD.

Now luckily I'm happy with my life. Wouldn't change that much. I'm not dependent on puss and I'm highly respected in my community.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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this video is cool but it isn't a big deal to me. he has a great point but i think other guys have it worse. i mean, i do spend some time chasing puss but at least im not a beta bvtch stuck in the friend zone. im getting my education, to have a career, and i talk to girls when i see fit.

i think this guy in the video cares way too much.

regardless, good post OP. some guys probably need this more than i do.
 

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PeasantPlayer said:
The video makes me think about virgins giving advice on sex. Which is what a lot of posters on this forum do. While it may be good advice, it doesn't come from experience which is more valuable then regurgitation from a book. If I needed information that came from a book, then I would read the book not ask a guy who read the book.
 

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The video makes me think about virgins giving advice on sex. Which is what a lot of posters on this forum do. While it may be good advice, it doesn't come from experience which is more valuable then regurgitation from a book. If I needed information that came from a book, then I would read the book not ask a guy who read the book.
I don't know what the guys experience is in life or with women, but what he says is 100 percent true, work on yourself and the rest falls in place. Is it easy? Nope never is, will it require patience? yup....I don't think he meant completely ignore women, just don't be caught up in their drama, don't waste time on social dating sites or being creepy and randomly adding them on facebook. To much time is being wasted not to be a better you. He implied women are hypergamus which I think is true hate to say it.

Its not different then getting advice from a screen name on here
 

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Its true. But I d also add work hard on your social circle and social skills. If u have that in place finding a quality woman is easier when u want. I d also say if u want kids don't wait too long. At 35 u d be actively searching and screening hard for a 25 YO. Otherwise u all find most of the good ones married or single mums.
 
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