PeasantPlayer
Master Don Juan
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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The video makes me think about virgins giving advice on sex. Which is what a lot of posters on this forum do. While it may be good advice, it doesn't come from experience which is more valuable then regurgitation from a book. If I needed information that came from a book, then I would read the book not ask a guy who read the book.PeasantPlayer said:
I don't know what the guys experience is in life or with women, but what he says is 100 percent true, work on yourself and the rest falls in place. Is it easy? Nope never is, will it require patience? yup....I don't think he meant completely ignore women, just don't be caught up in their drama, don't waste time on social dating sites or being creepy and randomly adding them on facebook. To much time is being wasted not to be a better you. He implied women are hypergamus which I think is true hate to say it.The video makes me think about virgins giving advice on sex. Which is what a lot of posters on this forum do. While it may be good advice, it doesn't come from experience which is more valuable then regurgitation from a book. If I needed information that came from a book, then I would read the book not ask a guy who read the book.