PeasantPlayer
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Are you wasting to much time chasing women?
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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
OlympicTim
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I don't know if you posted this seriously but it honestly opened up my eyes a lot
PeasantPlayer
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That's good, not me in the video lol. Found it (maybe for a reason) its simple to the point
:crackup: great piss take. as we say in Oz.
but yeah on the serious side you shouldn't be doing all this Facebook s***. if you're doing OLD spam the girls and get a quick Number grab. if you're doing cold approach 10 to 15 minutes max get the number or not hit and run.
I treat myself with morning Maccas on a Saturday especially if I've been out for beers on Friday. I sat down and chatted with two Korean girls there last week. I have to go to our equivalent of Home Depot today. if I see a cute woman I ll approach and if I don't I ll flirt with the counter chicks. I have to buy a book I'm reading for a book club. I read books so I can easly start a conversation with any cute girls in the bookstore. U get the idea.
The main thing is to always be on then you really not wasting much time. and you're practicing all the time ....at the end of the day you are as you train.
whether you are successful or not is much more about how the chicks feeling on the day so why wouldn't you approach all the time and let random luck work for you.
but yeah on the serious side you shouldn't be doing all this Facebook s***. if you're doing OLD spam the girls and get a quick Number grab. if you're doing cold approach 10 to 15 minutes max get the number or not hit and run.
I treat myself with morning Maccas on a Saturday especially if I've been out for beers on Friday. I sat down and chatted with two Korean girls there last week. I have to go to our equivalent of Home Depot today. if I see a cute woman I ll approach and if I don't I ll flirt with the counter chicks. I have to buy a book I'm reading for a book club. I read books so I can easly start a conversation with any cute girls in the bookstore. U get the idea.
The main thing is to always be on then you really not wasting much time. and you're practicing all the time ....at the end of the day you are as you train.
whether you are successful or not is much more about how the chicks feeling on the day so why wouldn't you approach all the time and let random luck work for you.
Yup. I spent a good 10 years chasing puss and got nothing out of it. Guys in their 20s should not waste time on puss.
The good thing is I was never a girl's emotional tampon and I didn't fix her car. I just spent a lot of time on OLD.
Now luckily I'm happy with my life. Wouldn't change that much. I'm not dependent on puss and I'm highly respected in my community.
The good thing is I was never a girl's emotional tampon and I didn't fix her car. I just spent a lot of time on OLD.
Now luckily I'm happy with my life. Wouldn't change that much. I'm not dependent on puss and I'm highly respected in my community.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
amazingswayze
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this video is cool but it isn't a big deal to me. he has a great point but i think other guys have it worse. i mean, i do spend some time chasing puss but at least im not a beta bvtch stuck in the friend zone. im getting my education, to have a career, and i talk to girls when i see fit.
i think this guy in the video cares way too much.
regardless, good post OP. some guys probably need this more than i do.
i think this guy in the video cares way too much.
regardless, good post OP. some guys probably need this more than i do.
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The video makes me think about virgins giving advice on sex. Which is what a lot of posters on this forum do. While it may be good advice, it doesn't come from experience which is more valuable then regurgitation from a book. If I needed information that came from a book, then I would read the book not ask a guy who read the book.PeasantPlayer said:
PeasantPlayer
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I don't know what the guys experience is in life or with women, but what he says is 100 percent true, work on yourself and the rest falls in place. Is it easy? Nope never is, will it require patience? yup....I don't think he meant completely ignore women, just don't be caught up in their drama, don't waste time on social dating sites or being creepy and randomly adding them on facebook. To much time is being wasted not to be a better you. He implied women are hypergamus which I think is true hate to say it.
Its not different then getting advice from a screen name on here
Its true. But I d also add work hard on your social circle and social skills. If u have that in place finding a quality woman is easier when u want. I d also say if u want kids don't wait too long. At 35 u d be actively searching and screening hard for a 25 YO. Otherwise u all find most of the good ones married or single mums.