Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Are you wasting to much time chasing women?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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OlympicTim

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I don't know if you posted this seriously but it honestly opened up my eyes a lot
 

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That's good, not me in the video lol. Found it (maybe for a reason) its simple to the point
 

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:crackup: great piss take. as we say in Oz.

but yeah on the serious side you shouldn't be doing all this Facebook s***. if you're doing OLD spam the girls and get a quick Number grab. if you're doing cold approach 10 to 15 minutes max get the number or not hit and run.

I treat myself with morning Maccas on a Saturday especially if I've been out for beers on Friday. I sat down and chatted with two Korean girls there last week. I have to go to our equivalent of Home Depot today. if I see a cute woman I ll approach and if I don't I ll flirt with the counter chicks. I have to buy a book I'm reading for a book club. I read books so I can easly start a conversation with any cute girls in the bookstore. U get the idea.

The main thing is to always be on then you really not wasting much time. and you're practicing all the time ....at the end of the day you are as you train.


whether you are successful or not is much more about how the chicks feeling on the day so why wouldn't you approach all the time and let random luck work for you.
 

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Yup. I spent a good 10 years chasing puss and got nothing out of it. Guys in their 20s should not waste time on puss.

The good thing is I was never a girl's emotional tampon and I didn't fix her car. I just spent a lot of time on OLD.

Now luckily I'm happy with my life. Wouldn't change that much. I'm not dependent on puss and I'm highly respected in my community.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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this video is cool but it isn't a big deal to me. he has a great point but i think other guys have it worse. i mean, i do spend some time chasing puss but at least im not a beta bvtch stuck in the friend zone. im getting my education, to have a career, and i talk to girls when i see fit.

i think this guy in the video cares way too much.

regardless, good post OP. some guys probably need this more than i do.
 

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PeasantPlayer said:
The video makes me think about virgins giving advice on sex. Which is what a lot of posters on this forum do. While it may be good advice, it doesn't come from experience which is more valuable then regurgitation from a book. If I needed information that came from a book, then I would read the book not ask a guy who read the book.
 

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The video makes me think about virgins giving advice on sex. Which is what a lot of posters on this forum do. While it may be good advice, it doesn't come from experience which is more valuable then regurgitation from a book. If I needed information that came from a book, then I would read the book not ask a guy who read the book.
I don't know what the guys experience is in life or with women, but what he says is 100 percent true, work on yourself and the rest falls in place. Is it easy? Nope never is, will it require patience? yup....I don't think he meant completely ignore women, just don't be caught up in their drama, don't waste time on social dating sites or being creepy and randomly adding them on facebook. To much time is being wasted not to be a better you. He implied women are hypergamus which I think is true hate to say it.

Its not different then getting advice from a screen name on here
 

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Its true. But I d also add work hard on your social circle and social skills. If u have that in place finding a quality woman is easier when u want. I d also say if u want kids don't wait too long. At 35 u d be actively searching and screening hard for a 25 YO. Otherwise u all find most of the good ones married or single mums.
 
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