Are you married?

[highconscienceness]

If women ask you if you're married, is that a **** test? How to answer?

 

[theunflushables]

Why would that be a sh1t test? That's an IOI.

Respond with the truth and ask a c&f question back.

 

[highconscienceness]

What are some good c&f questions?

 

[Rollo Tomassi]

HER: "Are you married?"

YOU:"It's complicated"

 

[terran2k]

are you married and trying to cheat or something?

 

[vatoloco]

"It depends."

Edit: terran, I wouldn't necessarily imply that our friend hc is trying to cheat. Like I always mention, "the devil's in the details..."

hc, what were the circumstances under which she asked you?

 

[S. Pryor]

HER: "Are you married?"

YOU:"It's complicated"

I read that on Roissy's blog but I don't think he elaborated much on that. What exactly is that supposed to do and what do you say if she asks you what you mean by that?

 

[Huffman]

I read that on Roissy's blog but I don't think he elaborated much on that. What exactly is that supposed to do and what do you say if she asks you what you mean by that?

I'd assume it would get her thinking about how you might be available and how she might have a chance with you. And at the same time "demonstrating" that you get girls.

On the other hand, maybe if she's a "good" girl with high standards she'll try to stay clear of you? Personally I would be put off by somebody who's in a complicated, but very serious relationship.

I'd go with some joke "No... why? You wanna marry me?" and then tease her for some time about that... haha I'm getting alot of ideas right now

 

[highconscienceness]

I always get asked if I'm married. I'm not married. Every time I go to someone's house they ask me if I'm married or not.

 

[S. Pryor]

I'd assume it would get her thinking about how you might be available and how she might have a chance with you. And at the same time "demonstrating" that you get girls.

On the other hand, maybe if she's a "good" girl with high standards she'll try to stay clear of you? Personally I would be put off by somebody who's in a complicated, but very serious relationship.

I'd go with some joke "No... why? You wanna marry me?" and then tease her for some time about that... haha I'm getting alot of ideas right now

I just went back and read the article and it talked about what it's supposed to do and if a girl asks you what it means. I remembered the article but I forgot it's exact content. I think the confusion came when the girl in the article was explaining what it meant but to me it didn't seem plausible. I couldn't imagine a woman asking "hey is that woman over there your girlfriend?" And the guy saying "it's complicated" but the woman just leaves it alone. Maybe the girl in the article wouldn't try to get details but I think most women would would verbally say what do you mean by that? I don't think they'll just let you off the hook that easy and move on to something else. Plus as a man I don't think I would be comfortable nor genuinely say (if I were to try it) "it's complicated". That sounds like something a woman would say, to me, but hey if it works I can't argue with results.

http://roissy.wordpress.com/2010/05/26/two-words-women-love-to-hear/