Sufficient experience will prevent those chemicals from flooding your brain. It can be a little sobering (pun intended) when it finally happens because it’s like finding out the Easter bunny isn’t real. But it leads to much more happiness and acceptance of what girls can and can’t do for you.
Yep... it's all about maintaining emotional self control.
I hate using fiction as an example, but there was a sci fi book written decades ago called "Dune" and there was a passage in that book where a witch cult (best way I can describe it) tested the protagonist with a pain box. He stuck his hand in the box and he experienced great pain like burning... if he pulled his hand out he would die. It was a test to see if he could control his fear. He passed, and he was declared a 'human being". The difference between being a 'human' and an animal is our ability to rationally evaluate a situation and ignore animal instinct driven by emotion.
Real men do not allow emotion to lead them around by the nose. It's easy to surrender to pizza and beer, and not spend time enduring the pain of working out and eating healthy food. It's easy to let 'love' get in the way of rational decision making... it's more than just discipline, it's realizing that emotion is a biological evolutionary tool that helped us survive before sentiance. This is why we don't just drop our pants and relieve ourselves in the street, it's why we don't just grab food when we see it when we a hungary... it's why we get up to work rather than just stay in bed when we are tired.
We know this intuitively, but for some reason... when it comes to relationships with chicks... men just lose their sh!t and forget rational thought. This is why chicks test you... they are testing to see if you a MALE human being, or a MALE human animal.
Show me a man that is fat and overweight, stuck in a dead end miserable job, sitting in front of TV or gaming console, married to a fat @ss woman that nags the cr@p out of him and I will show you a man that has no emotional self control. They won't leave situations like this because of fear... instead they stick this out until the woman gets fed up with living with a weak 'animal' and she does what he doesn't have the balls to do, which is endure the pain of pulling the trigger.