"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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How would you guys handle it if your gf or a girl you are seeing while having sex and thinking your doing a great job, she's moaning and all and then asks you in a bored seeming way: Are you done yet?

Immediate next? Or would you try harder to pleasure her next time?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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lizardking82

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Try harder to pleasure her the next time? I would just pull out right there and leave and never look back LOL. Noone asks me "are you done?" because to begin with, I am passionate about it and I want the other person to be passionate about it so I have sex with people who feel me. If they don't feel me early on, be it in the way they kiss and no further than that, NEXT. Got no time for people who see sex as something you do when you're bored.
 

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Try harder to pleasure her the next time? I would just pull out right there and leave and never look back LOL. Noone asks me "are you done?" because to begin with, I am passionate about it and I want the other person to be passionate about it so I have sex with people who feel me. If they don't feel me early on, be it in the way they kiss and no further than that, NEXT. Got no time for people who see sex as something you do when you're bored.
Yeah, that would turn me off, too. She working, not having a good time. Probably faking.
 

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I would try to finish up by letting off a nice explosion in her face.
 

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You should of said.. Yea I am done, then get dressed and leave!

Not a good sign my friend. Was this the first time you two had sex?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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I had this happen to me in 2011 and 1998. It's rude to the point of being potentially traumatizing.

It means she is a lost cause. Dump her and don't take her back unless she begs for sex. She is cold-hearted. It should never happen.
 

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Oh, I've heard that, feels bad man
agree with bigneil, very rude, dump immediately
 

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Or you demote her to sex toy and make the sex all about you. You do NOTHING to please her. You get yours, then get dressed and leave.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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mrgoodstuff

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Or you demote her to sex toy and make the sex all about you. You do NOTHING to please her. You get yours, then get dressed and leave.
Dude. Her comment is all about inflating her ego at the expense of yours. If you keep putting your D in her with this attitude and words coming out of her mouth, it will F with your erections and confidence! For real.

You could plate her and allow her to only do oral on you so she can't say nothing cause her mouth is full.
 

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Dude. Her comment is all about inflating her ego at the expense of yours. If you keep putting your D in her with this attitude and words coming out of her mouth, it will F with your erections and confidence! For real.

You could plate her and allow her to only do oral on you so she can't say nothing cause her mouth is full.
Of course she is trying to inflate her ego. That is why you make everything about you only
 

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I had this happen to me in 2011 and 1998. It's rude to the point of being potentially traumatizing.

It means she is a lost cause. Dump her and don't take her back unless she begs for sex. She is cold-hearted. It should never happen.
Did you have plates when it happened to you? I was one itised and my lady was doing me like this back in 2009... She was still taking the sex, but laying their like a dead body, and then you get the
erection deflating comments like you said "ARE YOU DONE YET?"... She was fighting me actively during those years and wasn't trying to do anything that would "help" me...
 

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The answer is "no", obviously.

Honestly, I had this but never overtly.

And I haven't had it once since being game-aware...

Tells you something, doesn't it? Don't be a pvssy. Take what you want, and leave her wanting more whilst you drink beer, and listen to tunes.

Don't be a sexual provider. I've tried increasing my sexual game, and I got called a "lesbian". That soon snapped me out of it.

Satisfy yourself. Be selfish, and spin plates.
What if I get the pleasure feeling her get satisfied? Like, if she's not enjoying it, it turns me off in general.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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