"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Are you below decent-looking and have dated many hott women?
- Thread starter tactic
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“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
FlyGuy
Master Don Juan
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
diablo
Master Don Juan
FlyGuy
Master Don Juan
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Originally posted by [T]he ishop
I'm proof that average guys can get decent enough girls...
www.jbspencer.com/girls
You're webpage skills seem to be as sharp as your djing skills... nice site
Ol'BlueEyes
Senior Don Juan
I'm the converse:
Above average-looking and rarely date. Unfortunately I think more guys fall into this category. Otherwise sosuave wouldn't exist.
* You are too high level for them
* You are not interested in them, when you are making the effort to approach
* You are a player
that's very true, im the same as you bro. And those 3 points are seen too often...yet very true sometimes.
my bro's friend even had the guts to ask me if i was a player back a few yrs....i dont know if i should take that as an insult or compliment
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
You gotta' have ATTITUDE, baby!
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Yup yup, what he said....Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
Good looks won't get you laid. Take it from a six and a half foot tall athletic looker like myself.
You gotta' have ATTITUDE, baby!
Ever since I learned to have the attitude to support the looks, I always get what I want....
PIMP