"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Are you below decent-looking and have dated many hott women?
- Thread starter tactic
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
FlyGuy
Master Don Juan
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
diablo
Master Don Juan
FlyGuy
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Originally posted by [T]he ishop
I'm proof that average guys can get decent enough girls...
www.jbspencer.com/girls
You're webpage skills seem to be as sharp as your djing skills... nice site
Ol'BlueEyes
Senior Don Juan
I'm the converse:
Above average-looking and rarely date. Unfortunately I think more guys fall into this category. Otherwise sosuave wouldn't exist.
* You are too high level for them
* You are not interested in them, when you are making the effort to approach
* You are a player
that's very true, im the same as you bro. And those 3 points are seen too often...yet very true sometimes.
my bro's friend even had the guts to ask me if i was a player back a few yrs....i dont know if i should take that as an insult or compliment
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
You gotta' have ATTITUDE, baby!
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Yup yup, what he said....Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
Good looks won't get you laid. Take it from a six and a half foot tall athletic looker like myself.
You gotta' have ATTITUDE, baby!
Ever since I learned to have the attitude to support the looks, I always get what I want....
PIMP