"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Are you below decent-looking and have dated many hott women?
- Thread starter tactic
- Start date
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
FlyGuy
Master Don Juan
Le Parisien
Master Don Juan
diablo
Master Don Juan
FlyGuy
Master Don Juan
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Originally posted by [T]he ishop
I'm proof that average guys can get decent enough girls...
www.jbspencer.com/girls
You're webpage skills seem to be as sharp as your djing skills... nice site
Ol'BlueEyes
Senior Don Juan
I'm the converse:
Above average-looking and rarely date. Unfortunately I think more guys fall into this category. Otherwise sosuave wouldn't exist.
* You are too high level for them
* You are not interested in them, when you are making the effort to approach
* You are a player
that's very true, im the same as you bro. And those 3 points are seen too often...yet very true sometimes.
my bro's friend even had the guts to ask me if i was a player back a few yrs....i dont know if i should take that as an insult or compliment
Spike_the_cowboy
Master Don Juan
You gotta' have ATTITUDE, baby!
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Pimp-sicle
Master Don Juan
Yup yup, what he said....Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
Good looks won't get you laid. Take it from a six and a half foot tall athletic looker like myself.
You gotta' have ATTITUDE, baby!
Ever since I learned to have the attitude to support the looks, I always get what I want....
PIMP