"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Are you below decent-looking and have dated many hott women?

Are you below the decent-looking 'area' and have dated many hott women?

  • Yes, of course I have... It's all about experience.

    Votes: 12 48.0%
  • Nope, I doubt I will date any hott women.

    Votes: 4 16.0%
  • Not sure... I've dated average girls.

    Votes: 9 36.0%

  • Total voters
    25

tactic

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Discuss and vote.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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FlyGuy

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Bishop - if you're an "average" guy (5 out of 10) then I'm one ugly mofo! Cool website BTW
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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Ol'BlueEyes

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number 4

I'm the converse:
Above average-looking and rarely date. Unfortunately I think more guys fall into this category. Otherwise sosuave wouldn't exist.
 

abraham

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Same as Ol'BlueEyes, good looking and don't date. I read somewhere that been good looking and insecure/shy is a real bad combo, as girls may think that:

* You are too high level for them

* You are not interested in them, when you are making the effort to approach

* You are a player
 

ScrewIt

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Originally posted by abraham
Same as Ol'BlueEyes, good looking and don't date. I read somewhere that been good looking and insecure/shy is a real bad combo, as girls may think that:

* You are too high level for them

* You are not interested in them, when you are making the effort to approach

* You are a player

that's very true, im the same as you bro. And those 3 points are seen too often...yet very true sometimes.

my bro's friend even had the guts to ask me if i was a player back a few yrs....i dont know if i should take that as an insult or compliment
 

Spike_the_cowboy

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Good looks won't get you laid. Take it from a six and a half foot tall athletic looker like myself.;)

You gotta' have ATTITUDE, baby!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Pimp-sicle

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Originally posted by Spike_the_cowboy
Good looks won't get you laid. Take it from a six and a half foot tall athletic looker like myself.;)

You gotta' have ATTITUDE, baby!
Yup yup, what he said....:D

Ever since I learned to have the attitude to support the looks, I always get what I want....:D



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