I have met *gym guy* while working out
This is spot on
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwtkqTu8iak&feature=related
This is spot on
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwtkqTu8iak&feature=related
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
As they say, if you are annoyed by this, and cannot see the humor, then you ARE *gym guy*Drum&Bass said:This video was ghey as fuk !!!! ANYONE who is serious about weightlifting is guilty of a few or more of those things. None of them are that big of a deal.
Just another pencil neck geek who gets nervous working out next to strong people.
What Jim outta do is get a membership at planet fitness "the judgement free zone" gym and start rocking purple t-shirts to match his feelings about working out in a gym.
Anyone else that agrees with him is a BIG GIANT PUSSEE !!!
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
:crackup:Trader said:I have met *gym guy* while working out
This is spot on
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwtkqTu8iak&feature=related
Planet Fitness is possibly the gayest gym ever.Drum&Bass said:This video was ghey as fuk !!!! ANYONE who is serious about weightlifting is guilty of a few or more of those things. None of them are that big of a deal.
Just another pencil neck geek who gets nervous working out next to strong people.
What Jim outta do is get a membership at planet fitness "the judgement free zone" gym and start rocking purple t-shirts to match his feelings about working out in a gym.
Anyone else that agrees with him is a BIG GIANT PUSSEE !!!
Trader said:As they say, if you are annoyed by this, and cannot see the humor, then you ARE *gym guy*
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
What if their inward is more embarrassing and unsightly than the outward? Usually it's the ones with faults of their own or ugly personalities who are insulting others because they cannot bear to confront themselves.Julius_Seizeher said:Talk about nitpicking! Next he takes on "car guy", you know, "that guy who drives a car down the road, probably with the radio on, what the hell is that about?"
Jim Rome should worry less about what others are doing and more about what his pecs are not doing. That goes for everybody - those who devote their imagination and energy to looking for reasons to criticize others, accomplish little else. Turn that critical eye inward instead of outward, and you just might get somewhere.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.