I have met *gym guy* while working out
This is spot on
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwtkqTu8iak&feature=related
This is spot on
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwtkqTu8iak&feature=related
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
As they say, if you are annoyed by this, and cannot see the humor, then you ARE *gym guy*Drum&Bass said:This video was ghey as fuk !!!! ANYONE who is serious about weightlifting is guilty of a few or more of those things. None of them are that big of a deal.
Just another pencil neck geek who gets nervous working out next to strong people.
What Jim outta do is get a membership at planet fitness "the judgement free zone" gym and start rocking purple t-shirts to match his feelings about working out in a gym.
Anyone else that agrees with him is a BIG GIANT PUSSEE !!!
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
:crackup:Trader said:I have met *gym guy* while working out
This is spot on
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwtkqTu8iak&feature=related
Planet Fitness is possibly the gayest gym ever.Drum&Bass said:This video was ghey as fuk !!!! ANYONE who is serious about weightlifting is guilty of a few or more of those things. None of them are that big of a deal.
Just another pencil neck geek who gets nervous working out next to strong people.
What Jim outta do is get a membership at planet fitness "the judgement free zone" gym and start rocking purple t-shirts to match his feelings about working out in a gym.
Anyone else that agrees with him is a BIG GIANT PUSSEE !!!
Trader said:As they say, if you are annoyed by this, and cannot see the humor, then you ARE *gym guy*
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
What if their inward is more embarrassing and unsightly than the outward? Usually it's the ones with faults of their own or ugly personalities who are insulting others because they cannot bear to confront themselves.Julius_Seizeher said:Talk about nitpicking! Next he takes on "car guy", you know, "that guy who drives a car down the road, probably with the radio on, what the hell is that about?"
Jim Rome should worry less about what others are doing and more about what his pecs are not doing. That goes for everybody - those who devote their imagination and energy to looking for reasons to criticize others, accomplish little else. Turn that critical eye inward instead of outward, and you just might get somewhere.
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.