I have met *gym guy* while working out
This is spot on
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwtkqTu8iak&feature=related
This is spot on
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwtkqTu8iak&feature=related
She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.
You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.
The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
As they say, if you are annoyed by this, and cannot see the humor, then you ARE *gym guy*Drum&Bass said:This video was ghey as fuk !!!! ANYONE who is serious about weightlifting is guilty of a few or more of those things. None of them are that big of a deal.
Just another pencil neck geek who gets nervous working out next to strong people.
What Jim outta do is get a membership at planet fitness "the judgement free zone" gym and start rocking purple t-shirts to match his feelings about working out in a gym.
Anyone else that agrees with him is a BIG GIANT PUSSEE !!!
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
:crackup:Trader said:I have met *gym guy* while working out
This is spot on
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=NwtkqTu8iak&feature=related
Planet Fitness is possibly the gayest gym ever.Drum&Bass said:This video was ghey as fuk !!!! ANYONE who is serious about weightlifting is guilty of a few or more of those things. None of them are that big of a deal.
Just another pencil neck geek who gets nervous working out next to strong people.
What Jim outta do is get a membership at planet fitness "the judgement free zone" gym and start rocking purple t-shirts to match his feelings about working out in a gym.
Anyone else that agrees with him is a BIG GIANT PUSSEE !!!
Trader said:As they say, if you are annoyed by this, and cannot see the humor, then you ARE *gym guy*
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
What if their inward is more embarrassing and unsightly than the outward? Usually it's the ones with faults of their own or ugly personalities who are insulting others because they cannot bear to confront themselves.Julius_Seizeher said:Talk about nitpicking! Next he takes on "car guy", you know, "that guy who drives a car down the road, probably with the radio on, what the hell is that about?"
Jim Rome should worry less about what others are doing and more about what his pecs are not doing. That goes for everybody - those who devote their imagination and energy to looking for reasons to criticize others, accomplish little else. Turn that critical eye inward instead of outward, and you just might get somewhere.
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.