"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Are you a nice guy?

legolas

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If girls call you a nice guy and you get no action from them, I want to hear from you. I've been doing a study on nice guys vs. jerks and have come up with 5 areas that can be improved to finally move out of nice guy status. They are:

1. Confidence/Lack of inhibition
2. Masculinity/Dominance
3. Attitude/Mindset
4. Sexuality
5. Emotions (both your own and hers)

I want to see if I can help you understand where you are in terms of those areas and which ones you should improve next.

This is how this works. You will PM or Email me your story. Please put [DJ Forum] in the subject so I know what the email refers to. In the email please include:

1. Your story
2. Your current status (age, weight, height, living situation, any exercise programs you're doing)
3. The one thing you're most frustrated about right now
4. Your most immediate/pressing need, the one thing/problem you want to solve right now.

I will choose about 3 or 4 of them and communicate with you via email asking you questions. Please DO NOT email if you cannot commit to checking your email at least once a day and respond accordingly. I want to help you but I can't do it if you're not cooperating. I will begin this program towards the end of the week or whenever I get at least 3 cases to work on whichever comes first.

I will most likely NOT reply to any stories posted on this thread. You MUST send it to me via PM or Email.

P.S. There is no charge for this service.
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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legolas

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I've already gotten a couple of responses, so if you want to get in on this, just send me a PM. There is a text limit on the PM's so you could send 2 if you need to write more.
 
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