"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Are you a nice guy?

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If girls call you a nice guy and you get no action from them, I want to hear from you. I've been doing a study on nice guys vs. jerks and have come up with 5 areas that can be improved to finally move out of nice guy status. They are:

1. Confidence/Lack of inhibition
2. Masculinity/Dominance
3. Attitude/Mindset
4. Sexuality
5. Emotions (both your own and hers)

I want to see if I can help you understand where you are in terms of those areas and which ones you should improve next.

This is how this works. You will PM or Email me your story. Please put [DJ Forum] in the subject so I know what the email refers to. In the email please include:

1. Your story
2. Your current status (age, weight, height, living situation, any exercise programs you're doing)
3. The one thing you're most frustrated about right now
4. Your most immediate/pressing need, the one thing/problem you want to solve right now.

I will choose about 3 or 4 of them and communicate with you via email asking you questions. Please DO NOT email if you cannot commit to checking your email at least once a day and respond accordingly. I want to help you but I can't do it if you're not cooperating. I will begin this program towards the end of the week or whenever I get at least 3 cases to work on whichever comes first.

I will most likely NOT reply to any stories posted on this thread. You MUST send it to me via PM or Email.

P.S. There is no charge for this service.
 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I've already gotten a couple of responses, so if you want to get in on this, just send me a PM. There is a text limit on the PM's so you could send 2 if you need to write more.
 
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