"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Are you a nice guy?

legolas

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If girls call you a nice guy and you get no action from them, I want to hear from you. I've been doing a study on nice guys vs. jerks and have come up with 5 areas that can be improved to finally move out of nice guy status. They are:

1. Confidence/Lack of inhibition
2. Masculinity/Dominance
3. Attitude/Mindset
4. Sexuality
5. Emotions (both your own and hers)

I want to see if I can help you understand where you are in terms of those areas and which ones you should improve next.

This is how this works. You will PM or Email me your story. Please put [DJ Forum] in the subject so I know what the email refers to. In the email please include:

1. Your story
2. Your current status (age, weight, height, living situation, any exercise programs you're doing)
3. The one thing you're most frustrated about right now
4. Your most immediate/pressing need, the one thing/problem you want to solve right now.

I will choose about 3 or 4 of them and communicate with you via email asking you questions. Please DO NOT email if you cannot commit to checking your email at least once a day and respond accordingly. I want to help you but I can't do it if you're not cooperating. I will begin this program towards the end of the week or whenever I get at least 3 cases to work on whichever comes first.

I will most likely NOT reply to any stories posted on this thread. You MUST send it to me via PM or Email.

P.S. There is no charge for this service.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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I've already gotten a couple of responses, so if you want to get in on this, just send me a PM. There is a text limit on the PM's so you could send 2 if you need to write more.
 
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