Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Are women intimidated by good looking men

guru1000

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Good-looking men, eh. Good-looking men with balls, yes.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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WanderingMan said:
I'm going to focus on these two statments here^. Of those women who want to 'f*ck you', there are things you can do to make it so she does not want to f*ck you anymore. Without reading to far into this statement, do you agree with it?

Now, whether or not you care if you "f*cked up" or not, is another matter.

The point: your personality and game and everything that these two aspects of you entail, can change a woman's feelings for you.

That is the point, and that is what this thread is about.

One step at a time...
Sure.. you can do things to make a woman who wanted to f*ck you no longer want to. This is not "f*cking up" though. This is called: incompatibility.

There is NO "f*cking up" with women unless you're a pathetic beta who thinks of sex as a reward. Sex is NOT a reward. Therefore, you cannot "f*ck up".
 

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Poon King said:
Sure.. you can do things to make a woman who wanted to f*ck you no longer want to. This is not "f*cking up" though. This is called: incompatibility.
Incompatibility? Well, apparently people can't change then? People can't learn? If they can't get laid, they're just destined to never be able to get laid?

Why are you on this site?


There is NO "f*cking up" with women unless you're a pathetic beta who thinks of sex as a reward. Sex is NOT a reward. Therefore, you cannot "f*ck up".
I don't even know where to begin with this. You're making way too much out of that one statement.
 

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Poon King said:
Sure.. you can do things to make a woman who wanted to f*ck you no longer want to. This is not "f*cking up" though. This is called: incompatibility.

There is NO "f*cking up" with women unless you're a pathetic beta who thinks of sex as a reward. Sex is NOT a reward. Therefore, you cannot "f*ck up".
im in shock and awe that i agree with you so much on this cuz you spill a LOT of garbage. good to know you have some sense.
 

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WanderingMan said:
Incompatibility? Well, apparently people can't change then? People can't learn? If they can't get laid, they're just destined to never be able to get laid?

Why are you on this site?




I don't even know where to begin with this. You're making way too much out of that one statement.
you did not get it. it just went right over your head.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Alexandar said:
you did not get it. it just went right over your head.
Feel free to explain it.

I'll be back in a few hours so you have some time.
 

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Back to the original question at hand. Yes of course!

IME they get at giddy, squirmy, flustered, try to charm you, blush really easily of course. Some will get the tingles & you can see right through it, fun to call them out on it too. Turns em on even more.

The younger the better, any thing post-wall and the decline is a lot more noticeable. They are ethier jaded or dried up, not usually worth dealing with. Or they just are flat out not attracted, which is fine too. Easily observed & noted, move on.
 

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As a good-looking man (10/10) who has been on both sides of the spectrum (thought women were better than men in 2005, and finally sank in that men are better than women in 2015-the red pill), I will say this:

Girls tend to look right past the looks and go for the jugular-is he dominant. It's never a true red pill test, but it's some lower variation on it. Is he dominant. Depending on what the answer is, then they start looking at his looks and getting hot. But it's all about what's on the inside. That's why many people say looks don't matter.

And now to the question-are they intimidated? Sure, any girl who thinks you're in a higher class than them in some way is intimidated by you. But it's possible to be intimidated by someone and not attracted to them. Intimidation and attraction are two distinct variables.
 
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