"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Are women intimidated by good looking men
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
Sure.. you can do things to make a woman who wanted to f*ck you no longer want to. This is not "f*cking up" though. This is called: incompatibility.WanderingMan said:
There is NO "f*cking up" with women unless you're a pathetic beta who thinks of sex as a reward. Sex is NOT a reward. Therefore, you cannot "f*ck up".
WanderingMan
Senior Don Juan
Incompatibility? Well, apparently people can't change then? People can't learn? If they can't get laid, they're just destined to never be able to get laid?Poon King said:
Why are you on this site?
I don't even know where to begin with this. You're making way too much out of that one statement.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
WanderingMan
Senior Don Juan
Feel free to explain it.Alexandar said:
I'll be back in a few hours so you have some time.
hockeyfreak79
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IME they get at giddy, squirmy, flustered, try to charm you, blush really easily of course. Some will get the tingles & you can see right through it, fun to call them out on it too. Turns em on even more.
The younger the better, any thing post-wall and the decline is a lot more noticeable. They are ethier jaded or dried up, not usually worth dealing with. Or they just are flat out not attracted, which is fine too. Easily observed & noted, move on.
Girls tend to look right past the looks and go for the jugular-is he dominant. It's never a true red pill test, but it's some lower variation on it. Is he dominant. Depending on what the answer is, then they start looking at his looks and getting hot. But it's all about what's on the inside. That's why many people say looks don't matter.
And now to the question-are they intimidated? Sure, any girl who thinks you're in a higher class than them in some way is intimidated by you. But it's possible to be intimidated by someone and not attracted to them. Intimidation and attraction are two distinct variables.