"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Are women intimidated by good looking men
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“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Sure.. you can do things to make a woman who wanted to f*ck you no longer want to. This is not "f*cking up" though. This is called: incompatibility.WanderingMan said:
There is NO "f*cking up" with women unless you're a pathetic beta who thinks of sex as a reward. Sex is NOT a reward. Therefore, you cannot "f*ck up".
WanderingMan
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Incompatibility? Well, apparently people can't change then? People can't learn? If they can't get laid, they're just destined to never be able to get laid?Poon King said:
Why are you on this site?
I don't even know where to begin with this. You're making way too much out of that one statement.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
WanderingMan
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Feel free to explain it.Alexandar said:
I'll be back in a few hours so you have some time.
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IME they get at giddy, squirmy, flustered, try to charm you, blush really easily of course. Some will get the tingles & you can see right through it, fun to call them out on it too. Turns em on even more.
The younger the better, any thing post-wall and the decline is a lot more noticeable. They are ethier jaded or dried up, not usually worth dealing with. Or they just are flat out not attracted, which is fine too. Easily observed & noted, move on.
Girls tend to look right past the looks and go for the jugular-is he dominant. It's never a true red pill test, but it's some lower variation on it. Is he dominant. Depending on what the answer is, then they start looking at his looks and getting hot. But it's all about what's on the inside. That's why many people say looks don't matter.
And now to the question-are they intimidated? Sure, any girl who thinks you're in a higher class than them in some way is intimidated by you. But it's possible to be intimidated by someone and not attracted to them. Intimidation and attraction are two distinct variables.