Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Sure.. you can do things to make a woman who wanted to f*ck you no longer want to. This is not "f*cking up" though. This is called: incompatibility.WanderingMan said:I'm going to focus on these two statments here^. Of those women who want to 'f*ck you', there are things you can do to make it so she does not want to f*ck you anymore. Without reading to far into this statement, do you agree with it?
Now, whether or not you care if you "f*cked up" or not, is another matter.
The point: your personality and game and everything that these two aspects of you entail, can change a woman's feelings for you.
That is the point, and that is what this thread is about.
One step at a time...
Incompatibility? Well, apparently people can't change then? People can't learn? If they can't get laid, they're just destined to never be able to get laid?Poon King said:Sure.. you can do things to make a woman who wanted to f*ck you no longer want to. This is not "f*cking up" though. This is called: incompatibility.
I don't even know where to begin with this. You're making way too much out of that one statement.There is NO "f*cking up" with women unless you're a pathetic beta who thinks of sex as a reward. Sex is NOT a reward. Therefore, you cannot "f*ck up".
im in shock and awe that i agree with you so much on this cuz you spill a LOT of garbage. good to know you have some sense.Poon King said:Sure.. you can do things to make a woman who wanted to f*ck you no longer want to. This is not "f*cking up" though. This is called: incompatibility.
There is NO "f*cking up" with women unless you're a pathetic beta who thinks of sex as a reward. Sex is NOT a reward. Therefore, you cannot "f*ck up".
you did not get it. it just went right over your head.WanderingMan said:Incompatibility? Well, apparently people can't change then? People can't learn? If they can't get laid, they're just destined to never be able to get laid?
Why are you on this site?
I don't even know where to begin with this. You're making way too much out of that one statement.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Feel free to explain it.Alexandar said:you did not get it. it just went right over your head.