"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Are these good or bad signs?

styleman

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Wants you to sit with her when she's ill, just sit and hold her hand...
Says I don't know what I'd do without you.
Says I love you etc.

But getting no sex... Hang in or give up?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Have you made a move?

In all honesty the "signs" you have mentioned are nothing special.
 

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How long have you known her?
How long have you been "together?"
What have you done physically?
 

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Charm&Style said:
Have you made a move?

In all honesty the "signs" you have mentioned are nothing special.
I don't know how to make a move, damn serious, women have always mad a move on me. Serious problem I guess...

Agree nothing special, but usually these come after sex, not before!
 

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Charm&Style said:
Have you made a move?

In all honesty the "signs" you have mentioned are nothing special.
I don't know how to make a move, damn serious, women have always mad a move on me. Serious problem I guess...

Agree nothing special, but usually these come after sex, not before!
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Maxtro said:
How long have you known her?
How long have you been "together?"
What have you done physically?
Known of her quite a while
Around 4 dates,
kissed is the extent of 'physically'
 

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OK so it seems that you've been dating her for about a month, I'm guessing one date a week.

When you say kissed, I hope you mean made out for at least a couple of minutes. If not you need to do it.

When you're making out let your hands wander. There is a ton of info on this site about foreplay and getting girls ready for sex. Look for stuff about kino.

What matters most though, is that if you don't make the move it probably won't happen. BTW who kissed whom first and how did it happen?
 

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Maxtro said:
OK so it seems that you've been dating her for about a month, I'm guessing one date a week.

When you say kissed, I hope you mean made out for at least a couple of minutes. If not you need to do it.

When you're making out let your hands wander. There is a ton of info on this site about foreplay and getting girls ready for sex. Look for stuff about kino.

What matters most though, is that if you don't make the move it probably won't happen. BTW who kissed whom first and how did it happen?

She kissed me, as I said, I have never made the first move on a woman... Just too afraid to being called a rapist or some **** like that...

As far as social interaction goes I'd say I'm a very confident and self righteous guy, its just that when it comes to getting physical I don't initiate mostly due to fear entrained into me, if they don't want it, then I could get into trouble.
 

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Stop being a puss and make a move.
 

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styleman said:
She kissed me, as I said, I have never made the first move on a woman... Just too afraid to being called a rapist or some **** like that...

As far as social interaction goes I'd say I'm a very confident and self righteous guy, its just that when it comes to getting physical I don't initiate mostly due to fear entrained into me, if they don't want it, then I could get into trouble.
sorry buddy but no woman is gonna call you a rapist for trying to kiss her. If you've shown any interest in her she'll be expecting it. Kiss this girl NOW!!!!
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Next time you two are out initiate! Most men dont get laid because they fear initiation or they plain out suck at it. Women are just as horny as men and if shes interested shes waiting for your move. Make out with her confidently, move to her neck and ears and then work your way down
 
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