Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Are these good or bad signs?

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Wants you to sit with her when she's ill, just sit and hold her hand...
Says I don't know what I'd do without you.
Says I love you etc.

But getting no sex... Hang in or give up?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Charm&Style

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Have you made a move?

In all honesty the "signs" you have mentioned are nothing special.
 

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How long have you known her?
How long have you been "together?"
What have you done physically?
 

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Charm&Style said:
Have you made a move?

In all honesty the "signs" you have mentioned are nothing special.
I don't know how to make a move, damn serious, women have always mad a move on me. Serious problem I guess...

Agree nothing special, but usually these come after sex, not before!
 

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Charm&Style said:
Have you made a move?

In all honesty the "signs" you have mentioned are nothing special.
I don't know how to make a move, damn serious, women have always mad a move on me. Serious problem I guess...

Agree nothing special, but usually these come after sex, not before!
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maxtro said:
How long have you known her?
How long have you been "together?"
What have you done physically?
Known of her quite a while
Around 4 dates,
kissed is the extent of 'physically'
 

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OK so it seems that you've been dating her for about a month, I'm guessing one date a week.

When you say kissed, I hope you mean made out for at least a couple of minutes. If not you need to do it.

When you're making out let your hands wander. There is a ton of info on this site about foreplay and getting girls ready for sex. Look for stuff about kino.

What matters most though, is that if you don't make the move it probably won't happen. BTW who kissed whom first and how did it happen?
 

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Maxtro said:
OK so it seems that you've been dating her for about a month, I'm guessing one date a week.

When you say kissed, I hope you mean made out for at least a couple of minutes. If not you need to do it.

When you're making out let your hands wander. There is a ton of info on this site about foreplay and getting girls ready for sex. Look for stuff about kino.

What matters most though, is that if you don't make the move it probably won't happen. BTW who kissed whom first and how did it happen?

She kissed me, as I said, I have never made the first move on a woman... Just too afraid to being called a rapist or some **** like that...

As far as social interaction goes I'd say I'm a very confident and self righteous guy, its just that when it comes to getting physical I don't initiate mostly due to fear entrained into me, if they don't want it, then I could get into trouble.
 

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Stop being a puss and make a move.
 

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styleman said:
She kissed me, as I said, I have never made the first move on a woman... Just too afraid to being called a rapist or some **** like that...

As far as social interaction goes I'd say I'm a very confident and self righteous guy, its just that when it comes to getting physical I don't initiate mostly due to fear entrained into me, if they don't want it, then I could get into trouble.
sorry buddy but no woman is gonna call you a rapist for trying to kiss her. If you've shown any interest in her she'll be expecting it. Kiss this girl NOW!!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Next time you two are out initiate! Most men dont get laid because they fear initiation or they plain out suck at it. Women are just as horny as men and if shes interested shes waiting for your move. Make out with her confidently, move to her neck and ears and then work your way down
 
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