"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

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Are these good or bad signs?

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Wants you to sit with her when she's ill, just sit and hold her hand...
Says I don't know what I'd do without you.
Says I love you etc.

But getting no sex... Hang in or give up?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Charm&Style

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Have you made a move?

In all honesty the "signs" you have mentioned are nothing special.
 

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How long have you known her?
How long have you been "together?"
What have you done physically?
 

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Charm&Style said:
Have you made a move?

In all honesty the "signs" you have mentioned are nothing special.
I don't know how to make a move, damn serious, women have always mad a move on me. Serious problem I guess...

Agree nothing special, but usually these come after sex, not before!
 

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Charm&Style said:
Have you made a move?

In all honesty the "signs" you have mentioned are nothing special.
I don't know how to make a move, damn serious, women have always mad a move on me. Serious problem I guess...

Agree nothing special, but usually these come after sex, not before!
 

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Maxtro said:
How long have you known her?
How long have you been "together?"
What have you done physically?
Known of her quite a while
Around 4 dates,
kissed is the extent of 'physically'
 

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OK so it seems that you've been dating her for about a month, I'm guessing one date a week.

When you say kissed, I hope you mean made out for at least a couple of minutes. If not you need to do it.

When you're making out let your hands wander. There is a ton of info on this site about foreplay and getting girls ready for sex. Look for stuff about kino.

What matters most though, is that if you don't make the move it probably won't happen. BTW who kissed whom first and how did it happen?
 

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Maxtro said:
OK so it seems that you've been dating her for about a month, I'm guessing one date a week.

When you say kissed, I hope you mean made out for at least a couple of minutes. If not you need to do it.

When you're making out let your hands wander. There is a ton of info on this site about foreplay and getting girls ready for sex. Look for stuff about kino.

What matters most though, is that if you don't make the move it probably won't happen. BTW who kissed whom first and how did it happen?

She kissed me, as I said, I have never made the first move on a woman... Just too afraid to being called a rapist or some **** like that...

As far as social interaction goes I'd say I'm a very confident and self righteous guy, its just that when it comes to getting physical I don't initiate mostly due to fear entrained into me, if they don't want it, then I could get into trouble.
 

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Stop being a puss and make a move.
 

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styleman said:
She kissed me, as I said, I have never made the first move on a woman... Just too afraid to being called a rapist or some **** like that...

As far as social interaction goes I'd say I'm a very confident and self righteous guy, its just that when it comes to getting physical I don't initiate mostly due to fear entrained into me, if they don't want it, then I could get into trouble.
sorry buddy but no woman is gonna call you a rapist for trying to kiss her. If you've shown any interest in her she'll be expecting it. Kiss this girl NOW!!!!
 

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Next time you two are out initiate! Most men dont get laid because they fear initiation or they plain out suck at it. Women are just as horny as men and if shes interested shes waiting for your move. Make out with her confidently, move to her neck and ears and then work your way down
 
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