"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Are the differences between a female 5/10 & 6/10 subtle to you, or quite large jump in attractiveness?

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5-average.
6-above (or slightly above) average.

Probably like the difference between lifting X weight on the bench, and an added 2.5lb plate on each side.

You may not notice a huge difference, but you will notice a slight one.
yeah but what does slightly above average actually look like ?
Post a pic of a 5 and a 6 and demonstrate pls.

I notice also.. except for the OP pic of 3 high school chicks .. OP can’t demonstrate a 5 vs 6 vs 7 vs 8 etc

so if that’s not possible .., what use is the f*cking scale ?! lol :rolleyes:

Plus if a chick is fat and ugly (sub5) .
Who cares exactly how ugly and exactly how fat she is..? A 4 vs 3 vs 2 vs 1 …

see what I mean or nah?
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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yeah but what does slightly above average actually look like ?

Post a pic of a 5 and a 6 and demonstrate pls.
Pictured below is comedian Jess Hilarious.

Her face card (in my opinion), is a 5...which is about as average as you can get.

If she drops one step below (4), she is unattractive. But one step up, she'll be kinda cute.

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Pictured below is actress Keke Palmer.

Her face card is my example of a 6.

Slightly above average and ranges in the "She ain't gorgeous, but she's kinda cute" territory.

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I notice also.. except for the OP pic of 3 high school chicks .. OP can’t demonstrate a 5 vs 6 vs 7 vs 8 etc

so if that’s not possible .., what use is the f*cking scale ?! lol :rolleyes:
It's difficult to explain, but you know it when you see it.

Plus if a chick is fat and ugly (sub5) .
Who cares exactly how ugly and exactly how fat she is..? A 4 vs 3 vs 2 vs 1 …

see what I mean or nah?
Well, look at it this way; the sport of basketball.

Would you rather lose by 20 points in a blowout, or by 2 points in a close, competitive game?

A loss is a loss, but all losses ain't created equal.
 

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Pictured below is comedian Jess Hilarious.

Her face card (in my opinion), is a 5...which is about as average as you can get.

If she drops one step below (4), she is unattractive. But one step up, she'll be kinda cute.

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Pictured below is actress Keke Palmer.

Her face card is my example of a 6.

Slightly above average and ranges in the "She ain't gorgeous, but she's kinda cute" territory.

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It's difficult to explain, but you know it when you see it.



Well, look at it this way; the sport of basketball.

Would you rather lose by 20 points in a blowout, or by 2 points in a close, competitive game?

A loss is a loss, but all losses ain't created equal.
well thanks for the pics.
You got the 5 and the 6.
Just for FOUR more to go.... 7, 8, 9 & 10;)
and if that chick is your 6..its gonna be a struggle for ya I reckon .

I lolled at your " its difficult to explain but youll know it when you see it":lol:
I wont. cos I already said , i struggle to differentiate by 1 " point" and I think such a scale has too many problems with it.

Im asking for youze guys to show me , as you believe in it...:rolleyes:
PICTURE PROOF OR NOTHING !!
 

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anyway, Ill spare you the headache @We_ArE_VeNOM
This is all I could get from a google search ( theres not many results tbh)
Yeah sure, this is ok.
But annoyed there is no 10/10 (WTF?)
And imo theres some chicks in the 7s/ 8s/9s Id move around based on my preferences.
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Whats missing is bodies tho.
Bodies shapes are important, whats her rack like, good @ss or nah, has she long legs etc
That fvcks up the scale.

For example this chick - Id imagine OP and some others would say " she looks like a trashy wh0re, —would not bang" :rolleyes:
But CJ would bang. CJ bang hard.
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well thanks for the pics.
You got the 5 and the 6.
Just for FOUR more to go.... 7, 8, 9 & 10;)
You're original request was..

"Post a pic of a 5 and a 6 and demonstrate pls".

And your request was honored by the pics I provided.

Now you've moved the goalpost and want the additional 7-10...which should have been part of your original request if that's what you wanted.

and if that chick is your 6..its gonna be a struggle for ya I reckon .
No, because I can think of many gorgeous/beautiful women who can easily top the 7-10 charts.

Beyonce
Halle Berry
Mya
Sanaa Lathan
Sydney Colsen
DiJonai Carrington
Candace Owens
Amel Larrieux
Ilhan Omar
Keisha Cole

Would you like the list to go on and on, or perhaps we can put all this bs to rest?

I lolled at your " its difficult to explain but youll know it when you see it":lol:
I wont. cos I already said , i struggle to differentiate by 1 " point"
Yeah, and I struggled to bench press 345lbs, but it got done.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and it is a broad spectrum.

and I think such a scale has too many problems with it.
Ok, so if a 1-10 scale has too many problems with it, let's consider a 1-5 scale.

So, on a 1-5 scale, what separates a 4 from a 5?

Or a 3 from a 4?

Oh, so a 1-5 scale is also too problematic for for you?

Ok, so how about a 1-3 scale?

How do you distinguish a 2 from a 3?

or a 1 from a 2?

So using your logic, every scale is problematic.

You may have to put this one to bed, junior.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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You're original request was..

"Post a pic of a 5 and a 6 and demonstrate pls".

And your request was honored by the pics I provided.

Now you've moved the goalpost and want the additional 7-10...which should have been part of your original request if that's what you wanted.



No, because I can think of many gorgeous/beautiful women who can easily top the 7-10 charts.

Beyonce
Halle Berry
Mya
Sanaa Lathan
Sydney Colsen
DiJonai Carrington
Candace Owens
Amel Larrieux
Ilhan Omar
Keisha Cole

Would you like the list to go on and on, or perhaps we can put all this bs to rest?



Yeah, and I struggled to bench press 345lbs, but it got done.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and it is a broad spectrum.



Ok, so if a 1-10 scale has too many problems with it, let's consider a 1-5 scale.

So, on a 1-5 scale, what separates a 4 from a 5?

Or a 3 from a 4?

Oh, so a 1-5 scale is also too problematic for for you?

Ok, so how about a 1-3 scale?

How do you distinguish a 2 from a 3?

or a 1 from a 2?

So using your logic, every scale is problematic.

You may have to put this one to bed, junior.
not really buddy.
If 1-5 are unfvckable
And 9-10 are untouchable dream girls..
There’s only 5-8 that’s relevant anyway.

And there’s all sorts of varieties in there, that every guy on here would rate differently, there’ll be no consensus on the rating…
so what’s the point of the scale anyway.

you may as well post up pics of your 7, 8 & 9 in order as you have the names already.
Unless that’s your order and Beyoncé is a 7 (lol)

for me there’s just
-Plain Janes but bangeable (some sex appeal) approx 5-6
-Cute /Pretty girls (more sex appeal) approx 6-7
-Hot girls /sexy b1tches (obvious high sex appeal and dress to show it off) approx 7-8

That’s about it

3 categories, and can’t say exactly the rating , as it’s subjective.

She’d be a hot sexyb1tch
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I would say they are subtle. Of these 3 High School girls, the far left is a 6/10 = a bit above average, the other two are 5's/average looking girls. The 6 has longer hair, more feminine face and nicer eyes, better skull shape, slightly prettier.

OP, you are seriously saying the girl in the left is only 1 point higher than the middle?

I'd rate girl on the left like a solid 7.5... while the middle girl is a sub 4..... then girl on the right is around a 6, still considerably more attractive than the middle girl, who looks like she was hit with an ugly stick.

But to answer your question not really. I won't bang 5s and I still don't usually even bother banging 6s, unless they make it super easy for me and/or have a great personality.

Even a 7 isn't THAT much higher than a 5. I think of 7 as "minimally exceptional" - or another way of putting it, they are an "average attractive person".



For reference, I'd consider either one of these women close to a 10.

http://instagr.am/p/DXDCCkZktDY/
http://instagr.am/p/DdhblIUSb9z/
 
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all this splitting hairs is irrelevant

If (in her mind) she's getting validation as if she's a ten, then to her, she's 10/10
 

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not really buddy.
If 1-5 are unfvckable
And 9-10 are untouchable dream girls..
There’s only 5-8 that’s relevant anyway.
Well, that's your rating scale.

My rating scale...

7-10 = She is absolutely gorgeous. (Fukable)

4-6 = She isn't stunning, but decent. (Still fukable)

1-3 = Unattractive (Non-fukable).

But hell, just because she is unfukable (1-3), doesn't mean I won't let her SMD.

And there’s all sorts of varieties in there, that every guy on here would rate differently, there’ll be no consensus on the rating…
so what’s the point of the scale anyway.
The point of the rating scale isn't about a general consensus...it is about your personal preference as it pertains to women that you find attractive.

you may as well post up pics of your 7, 8 & 9 in order as you have the names already.
Unless that’s your order and Beyoncé is a 7 (lol)
10: Beyonce, Mya, Sydney, DiJonai, Amel

9: Sanaa

8: Keyshia, IIhan

7: Candace, Halle Berry

for me there’s just
-Plain Janes but bangeable (some sex appeal) approx 5-6
-Cute /Pretty girls (more sex appeal) approx 6-7
-Hot girls /sexy b1tches (obvious high sex appeal and dress to show it off) approx 7-8

That’s about it

3 categories, and can’t say exactly the rating , as it’s subjective.
There are some people who have the ability to take complicated shiit, and make it simple.

But then there are people like you, who take simple shiit, and make it complicated.
 

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Yes yes… a personalised scale. So useful.
lol. The point of any scale is consensus
:rofl::rofl::rofl:

ps - Halle Berry is a 7 now??! This is getting better and better.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yes yes… a personalised scale. So useful.
lol. The point of any scale is consensus
:rofl::rofl::rofl:
Oh, is that right?

So, when the doctor ask you..

Doc: On a scale of 1-10, what is your pain level?


I guess you'll say..

You: "Before I answer that, doc, let me check in with SoSuave.net..and see what the consensus is about my pain level".

Makes no sense.

The scale is based on you, not someone else.

ps - Halle Berry is a 7 now??! This is getting better and better.
Yeah, a 60 year old Halle Berry is now a 7.

Point?
 

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Oh, is that right?

So, when the doctor ask you..

Doc: On a scale of 1-10, what is your pain level?


I guess you'll say..

You: "Before I answer that, doc, let me check in with SoSuave.net..and see what the consensus is about my pain level".

Makes no sense.

The scale is based on you, not someone else.



Yeah, a 60 year old Halle Berry is now a 7.

Point?
Venom, I have to hand it to you.. well done on picking probably the only used scale on the planet that is a personalised scale.
Well done bro. I did not think you were that smart.

so yeah we’ll ignore ALL the other scales Yknow the 99% eof scales we all use so there’s consensus on measuring anything.

And why are we talking about 60year old women.
So we’re rating women on beauty when they are well past their prime now?

and further related question

do you buy lubricant by the 5 litre bottle..
or bulk buy iin the 44-Gallon Drum..for all those dried up ladies you service.:rofl:

Jeezos..


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