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Are the differences between a female 5/10 & 6/10 subtle to you, or quite large jump in attractiveness?

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5-average.
6-above (or slightly above) average.

Probably like the difference between lifting X weight on the bench, and an added 2.5lb plate on each side.

You may not notice a huge difference, but you will notice a slight one.
yeah but what does slightly above average actually look like ?
Post a pic of a 5 and a 6 and demonstrate pls.

I notice also.. except for the OP pic of 3 high school chicks .. OP can’t demonstrate a 5 vs 6 vs 7 vs 8 etc

so if that’s not possible .., what use is the f*cking scale ?! lol :rolleyes:

Plus if a chick is fat and ugly (sub5) .
Who cares exactly how ugly and exactly how fat she is..? A 4 vs 3 vs 2 vs 1 …

see what I mean or nah?
 
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yeah but what does slightly above average actually look like ?

Post a pic of a 5 and a 6 and demonstrate pls.
Pictured below is comedian Jess Hilarious.

Her face card (in my opinion), is a 5...which is about as average as you can get.

If she drops one step below (4), she is unattractive. But one step up, she'll be kinda cute.

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Pictured below is actress Keke Palmer.

Her face card is my example of a 6.

Slightly above average and ranges in the "She ain't gorgeous, but she's kinda cute" territory.

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I notice also.. except for the OP pic of 3 high school chicks .. OP can’t demonstrate a 5 vs 6 vs 7 vs 8 etc

so if that’s not possible .., what use is the f*cking scale ?! lol :rolleyes:
It's difficult to explain, but you know it when you see it.

Plus if a chick is fat and ugly (sub5) .
Who cares exactly how ugly and exactly how fat she is..? A 4 vs 3 vs 2 vs 1 …

see what I mean or nah?
Well, look at it this way; the sport of basketball.

Would you rather lose by 20 points in a blowout, or by 2 points in a close, competitive game?

A loss is a loss, but all losses ain't created equal.
 

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Pictured below is comedian Jess Hilarious.

Her face card (in my opinion), is a 5...which is about as average as you can get.

If she drops one step below (4), she is unattractive. But one step up, she'll be kinda cute.

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Pictured below is actress Keke Palmer.

Her face card is my example of a 6.

Slightly above average and ranges in the "She ain't gorgeous, but she's kinda cute" territory.

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It's difficult to explain, but you know it when you see it.



Well, look at it this way; the sport of basketball.

Would you rather lose by 20 points in a blowout, or by 2 points in a close, competitive game?

A loss is a loss, but all losses ain't created equal.
well thanks for the pics.
You got the 5 and the 6.
Just for FOUR more to go.... 7, 8, 9 & 10;)
and if that chick is your 6..its gonna be a struggle for ya I reckon .

I lolled at your " its difficult to explain but youll know it when you see it":lol:
I wont. cos I already said , i struggle to differentiate by 1 " point" and I think such a scale has too many problems with it.

Im asking for youze guys to show me , as you believe in it...:rolleyes:
PICTURE PROOF OR NOTHING !!
 

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anyway, Ill spare you the headache @We_ArE_VeNOM
This is all I could get from a google search ( theres not many results tbh)
Yeah sure, this is ok.
But annoyed there is no 10/10 (WTF?)
And imo theres some chicks in the 7s/ 8s/9s Id move around based on my preferences.
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Whats missing is bodies tho.
Bodies shapes are important, whats her rack like, good @ss or nah, has she long legs etc
That fvcks up the scale.

For example this chick - Id imagine OP and some others would say " she looks like a trashy wh0re, —would not bang" :rolleyes:
But CJ would bang. CJ bang hard.
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