"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Are the differences between a female 5/10 & 6/10 subtle to you, or quite large jump in attractiveness?

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5-average.
6-above (or slightly above) average.

Probably like the difference between lifting X weight on the bench, and an added 2.5lb plate on each side.

You may not notice a huge difference, but you will notice a slight one.
yeah but what does slightly above average actually look like ?
Post a pic of a 5 and a 6 and demonstrate pls.

I notice also.. except for the OP pic of 3 high school chicks .. OP can’t demonstrate a 5 vs 6 vs 7 vs 8 etc

so if that’s not possible .., what use is the f*cking scale ?! lol :rolleyes:

Plus if a chick is fat and ugly (sub5) .
Who cares exactly how ugly and exactly how fat she is..? A 4 vs 3 vs 2 vs 1 …

see what I mean or nah?
 
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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yeah but what does slightly above average actually look like ?

Post a pic of a 5 and a 6 and demonstrate pls.
Pictured below is comedian Jess Hilarious.

Her face card (in my opinion), is a 5...which is about as average as you can get.

If she drops one step below (4), she is unattractive. But one step up, she'll be kinda cute.

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Pictured below is actress Keke Palmer.

Her face card is my example of a 6.

Slightly above average and ranges in the "She ain't gorgeous, but she's kinda cute" territory.

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I notice also.. except for the OP pic of 3 high school chicks .. OP can’t demonstrate a 5 vs 6 vs 7 vs 8 etc

so if that’s not possible .., what use is the f*cking scale ?! lol :rolleyes:
It's difficult to explain, but you know it when you see it.

Plus if a chick is fat and ugly (sub5) .
Who cares exactly how ugly and exactly how fat she is..? A 4 vs 3 vs 2 vs 1 …

see what I mean or nah?
Well, look at it this way; the sport of basketball.

Would you rather lose by 20 points in a blowout, or by 2 points in a close, competitive game?

A loss is a loss, but all losses ain't created equal.
 

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Pictured below is comedian Jess Hilarious.

Her face card (in my opinion), is a 5...which is about as average as you can get.

If she drops one step below (4), she is unattractive. But one step up, she'll be kinda cute.

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Pictured below is actress Keke Palmer.

Her face card is my example of a 6.

Slightly above average and ranges in the "She ain't gorgeous, but she's kinda cute" territory.

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It's difficult to explain, but you know it when you see it.



Well, look at it this way; the sport of basketball.

Would you rather lose by 20 points in a blowout, or by 2 points in a close, competitive game?

A loss is a loss, but all losses ain't created equal.
well thanks for the pics.
You got the 5 and the 6.
Just for FOUR more to go.... 7, 8, 9 & 10;)
and if that chick is your 6..its gonna be a struggle for ya I reckon .

I lolled at your " its difficult to explain but youll know it when you see it":lol:
I wont. cos I already said , i struggle to differentiate by 1 " point" and I think such a scale has too many problems with it.

Im asking for youze guys to show me , as you believe in it...:rolleyes:
PICTURE PROOF OR NOTHING !!
 

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anyway, Ill spare you the headache @We_ArE_VeNOM
This is all I could get from a google search ( theres not many results tbh)
Yeah sure, this is ok.
But annoyed there is no 10/10 (WTF?)
And imo theres some chicks in the 7s/ 8s/9s Id move around based on my preferences.
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Whats missing is bodies tho.
Bodies shapes are important, whats her rack like, good @ss or nah, has she long legs etc
That fvcks up the scale.

For example this chick - Id imagine OP and some others would say " she looks like a trashy wh0re, —would not bang" :rolleyes:
But CJ would bang. CJ bang hard.
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well thanks for the pics.
You got the 5 and the 6.
Just for FOUR more to go.... 7, 8, 9 & 10;)
You're original request was..

"Post a pic of a 5 and a 6 and demonstrate pls".

And your request was honored by the pics I provided.

Now you've moved the goalpost and want the additional 7-10...which should have been part of your original request if that's what you wanted.

and if that chick is your 6..its gonna be a struggle for ya I reckon .
No, because I can think of many gorgeous/beautiful women who can easily top the 7-10 charts.

Beyonce
Halle Berry
Mya
Sanaa Lathan
Sydney Colsen
DiJonai Carrington
Candace Owens
Amel Larrieux
Ilhan Omar
Keisha Cole

Would you like the list to go on and on, or perhaps we can put all this bs to rest?

I lolled at your " its difficult to explain but youll know it when you see it":lol:
I wont. cos I already said , i struggle to differentiate by 1 " point"
Yeah, and I struggled to bench press 345lbs, but it got done.

Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder and it is a broad spectrum.

and I think such a scale has too many problems with it.
Ok, so if a 1-10 scale has too many problems with it, let's consider a 1-5 scale.

So, on a 1-5 scale, what separates a 4 from a 5?

Or a 3 from a 4?

Oh, so a 1-5 scale is also too problematic for for you?

Ok, so how about a 1-3 scale?

How do you distinguish a 2 from a 3?

or a 1 from a 2?

So using your logic, every scale is problematic.

You may have to put this one to bed, junior.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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